No to your first remark. I am not gay. Not into humiliation stuff either. Its all weird and mentally ill.
My wife and I sleep with other people, so long as we tell each other about it. Also unfortunately, she's never been with a black man, however we have a nice black lex steele replica toy that I can assure you sufficiently replicates the reactions girls have in the movies. Possibly the perfect size when used right. I can literally fuck Anja cross-eyed with that thing. Mandingo replica is simply too big.
And to your second remark, yes. And not to be an elitist or anything, but long before my marriage and long before it was popular I was watching my girlfriends have sex a lot. I even turned out a few wives I was cheating with, however I'm not exactly proud of that.
I've been very lucky in life. I'm 6ft, women seem to find me attractive, make good money, and can speak more than one language.
So sex acts you don’t agree with = mentally ill but sex acts you do agree with are totally fine?