I understand where your questions are coming from and it's understandable seeing how you view it from the outside position and not the bulls position. For you all the passion comes from the thrill of " forbidden fruit" having a black cock is for you white people and your families. So to you all it doesn't feel empty. This game of picking and choosing BBC like cattle to spice up boring marriages where weather it's the husband or the wife that isn't being sexually fulfilled with their normal sex life in the relationship.
Then there's Us who are fully aware of what it is and why you all look to fuck us so it's always empty and just sex for the most part in the way you're viewing it. Our passion comes from our aggression. That's something that is always there inside us. Just like how cuck and queen of spades couples put on their mask
for play time, as do we when we get the opportunity to defile one of you in front of your husbands and bfs worry free. So that's why it's easy to take up the position and mind frame that Jdingo mentioned because for the most part We bulls don't have a problem with not blurring the lines.