Ya know as to what you're about ******* I get it .. I'm absolutely not that I condone ******* but there are A LOT of women in the lifestyle that were initated into ways in ways that to me as a white guy seems WAY rougher than I would contemplate doing personally but is what many seem to be talking about when they describe that raw animalistic sex that gets them hooked .. so if I made otherwise we'll just understand it is a bit confusing being a guy that seems to be 9n a different sexual landscape looking over at how the other guy/ "how the other half lives, so to speak and it's a head scratcher at times .. there's a LOT 9f conflicting accounts out there, mind you from people expression get their preferences about THE MOST diverse and popular topics of interest on the planet .. SEXUh, consent is pretty important, as otherwise it is something they call *******......I know as a white male who gets all excited about humiliation and being submissive, the idea that black men are some kind of magical creatures that white women can't resist just makes your day, but the reality is all men are pretty much the same and women are attracted to men they find physically attractive and ever more important, men who have a good personality.