Okay. Now I'm getting some votes with the majority of voters saying they would be willing to take a poke at my wife's ass (something I've never been allowed to do!). So, the next question is where do I go from here? As I said in the poll, she's very much against the idea because she's pretty traditional (husband and wife only - and lately the husband hasn't even been allowed) and that's it. However, I happen to know that she and her girlfriends have had some pretty exciting conversations about guys they see when they go out for drinks. What do I do to warm her up to the idea or at least let her know that I'm okay with her getting some strange (hopefully BBC!)?