First of all, let me start by saying that the whole BM/WF thing does turn me on. So I'm not looking to pick a fight with people here, obviously. But at the same time, personally, when I see white women trashing white men, and unfavorably comparing them to black men, I have to admit that I do have a dual side of my nature which tends to become pretty resentful towards them. And I think a lot of white guys feel this way, somewhat. As the IR lifestyle becomes more and more mainstream, do you feel that this is going to have a big impact on the general relationship between white men and white women? For example, I've seen the Chelsea Lately chick talking about how much she prefers black guys. I saw a tweet from Katy Perry about watching IR porn. Miley Cyrus had a birthday cake shaped like a huge BC. Kim Kardashian (nuff said), etc. On TV I've seen an episode of NipTuck based on the IR cuckolding phenomenon. A couple episodes of Californication featuring those themes. At least one episode of The Shield. Etc. Also seen TONS of girls on twitter on "teamblackboys", "teamsnowbunny", "teamjunglefever", etc. And almost all of them are constantly bashing and putting down white guys, while making no secret of the fact that they're drooling over black guys.
I think it might be different if white girls were just "dating" black guys. But so much of the BM/WF dynamic seems to be as much about trashing and emasculating white guys as it is about their attraction towards each other.
Men are funny creatures. And if there's one thing that can cause them to do crazy *******, it's their women. So I guess what I'm asking is, if this trend continues, and we keep seeing more and more white women publicly slamming and trashing white men, in favor of black men, do you foresee a backlash? I spend a lot of time on the web, and even on sites which have absolutely nothing to do with race or IR dating, I'm seeing a MASSIVE rise in racism against black men, and misogyny towards, specifically white women, from white men. And even though most don't make it explicit, in my mind, it seems pretty obvious that there's a connection.
If a large enough portion of white women (and I don't think that portion would even have to be very large) joins in the public emasculation of white men, can you see a large percentage of white men turning their backs on white women? By either turning to women of other races in large numbers (judging by current trends, I'd say Asian women, specifically), or just dropping out all together and using porn as a substitute for relationships? That last part might sound a little crazy, but it's already happened in Japan. A majority of their male population no longer has any interest in having actual relationships or sex with women. And as for the first option, I've also seen a VERY large number of white guys on the web encouraging other guys to quit "wasting their time" with western women, and go overseas to find partners.
Anyway, just something I was thinking about. I was wondering what your thoughts are?
I think it might be different if white girls were just "dating" black guys. But so much of the BM/WF dynamic seems to be as much about trashing and emasculating white guys as it is about their attraction towards each other.
Men are funny creatures. And if there's one thing that can cause them to do crazy *******, it's their women. So I guess what I'm asking is, if this trend continues, and we keep seeing more and more white women publicly slamming and trashing white men, in favor of black men, do you foresee a backlash? I spend a lot of time on the web, and even on sites which have absolutely nothing to do with race or IR dating, I'm seeing a MASSIVE rise in racism against black men, and misogyny towards, specifically white women, from white men. And even though most don't make it explicit, in my mind, it seems pretty obvious that there's a connection.
If a large enough portion of white women (and I don't think that portion would even have to be very large) joins in the public emasculation of white men, can you see a large percentage of white men turning their backs on white women? By either turning to women of other races in large numbers (judging by current trends, I'd say Asian women, specifically), or just dropping out all together and using porn as a substitute for relationships? That last part might sound a little crazy, but it's already happened in Japan. A majority of their male population no longer has any interest in having actual relationships or sex with women. And as for the first option, I've also seen a VERY large number of white guys on the web encouraging other guys to quit "wasting their time" with western women, and go overseas to find partners.
Anyway, just something I was thinking about. I was wondering what your thoughts are?