My wife has had many sexual partners before me. She told me she was a "pleaser" and that if a guy was bold enough to come onto her, she would always give in. I witnessed it last weekend at a party when a young, black guy who had been flirting with her caught her from behind in the kitchen. She instinctively turned her head and locked her lips onto his. They did not see me, but I watched him play with her for several minutes before one of her girlfriends walked in and caught them. It was one of the most erotic things I have ever seen. It was obvious she was his for the taking. No one ever said a word to me and I have no idea how often this type of thing happens. It’s just a good thing there aren't too many men that bold around anymore.