I didn't want to hijack another thread so I figured I'd start my own We have been married 38 years she had her 1st "other" man where she was in her mid 20's we were both 18 when we married and I was her 1st and only. over a few years we did a couple of mfm with 2 different friends. Life got busy with kids and such so we took about a 15 year break. When we decided to start back we didn't want to involve friends and the internet was invented lol. This is how I found out I was a lucky white guy all the guys we hooked up with were smaller than me (I'm 9") so that's when I suggested going BBC she was not very interested at first but agreed to give it a try. Over the years we have had a couple of regular guys and a few 1 timers. All seemed well and lately we have been seeking a new regular guy and was just starting to get some good prospects. One big problem we have these days is we now have 2 adult sons and 2 grandkids living with us and in the economy today it helps all of us. So we were seeking a single guy with his own place for weekly visits maybe more which made it a bit tough but it does weed out the guys that claim to be single. This past weekend the grand kids went to the other grand parents and the sons went off mid Saturday not to return till sunday. Perfect we could have some fun that's when the NO came out and boy so did the I'm not doing this anymore. I know in the past there may have been a couple of guys she didn't want to do but did it any way to please me but once she gets the right one and he becomes a regular she really gets into it. I'm confused and angry at the moment I told her there's nothing wrong with what we are doing it it makes me love her even more shes says I'm treating her like a piece of meat. Any more advice for a horny old idiot. Does this look like a woman not enjoying BBC ?