My fiance and I have been talking about the cuckold lifestyle for about a year and a half now I know this is not some sort of "how to convince" or "how to get her interested." postings... Some curious things have happened over the past month or two that really sent me going into a new train of thought... She has made it clear she didn't want to be a black man. She was firm about it. She said she has had very traumatic events happen to her that really screwed her view up about interracial cuckolding... Yet seems like She might be turning toward something different -She has recently mentioned she would certainly consider him if he was handsome, charming, and respectful (She has said this at least three times we talked about it) -She seems more comfortable and open to -Finally I talked to her about her past events of pain that still get to her today. I told her that if these thing are preventing you from enjoying something or relationship that could bring tons of benefits and pleasure... She actually replied and agreed to work on that part of her self and agree to consider attractive and respectful BBC How Should I approach this.... What would Help me out here at where she's at?