WE HAVE BEEN IN THE SWING LIFESTYLE FOR ABOUT 18 YEARS. UP TILL A FEW MONTHS AGO WE HAVE ONLY BEEN WITH SINGLE WHITE MALE AND FEMALE AND A FEW COUPLES, WE HAVE JUST STARTED ADDING BLACK MEN TO OUR LIFESTYLE AND MOST OF THEN KEEP ASKING TO MEET JUST ME WITHOUT MY HUBBY ,BUT WE HAVE LIVE BY ONE RULE WE ONLY PLAY TGETHER OUR HOLD TIME IN THE LIFESTYLE,,, NOT THAT I HAVE NOT BEEN ASK BEFORE TO MEET WITHOUT MY HUBBY I TELL THEM NO,,,,,, BUT NOW I FIND MYSELF THINKING ABOUT DOING IT MEETING WITHOUT MY HUSBAND NOT SURE WHY ,,,,SO I GUST AM ASKING WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO