My wife and I have been exploring her sexuality for some time now. A few years ago she took a BF who visits in town from time to time and when he does, she typically will go with him to his hotel for the weekend. It was a wild fantasy for me to know she was thinking about this and was very intense the first night she went out. She did not know I knew what she was doing, she just told me she was going out with friends who were in town. I had found her sex diary a few months earlier so I have been able to keep up with her wants and desires, even the ones she does not tell me about. Well about a year or so ago, she started writing about being with some of the black men she has danced with over the months. I am wondering if its time.