Im a 30 year old wife who loves bbc. I have been into swinging for about 6years now and have to keep things private because of my job. My husband is straight and we are always use condoms.We do not swing alone no matter what.He is always there to take pics but we have to keep them private.Im a size queen and prefer 9inches or longer. Ive done 3 to 4 at 1 time but 2 is plenty for me.