I think some of you are getting this website confused with a
dating service ... you're
not paying anything for this service. If your desire is to use this site to hook up, and you want to confirm people are who they say they are ... request a cam session with 'em. Practically all laptops have cams now. In fact, maybe this site will set up a section for people willing/wanting to cam.
Personally, if I was a female, looking at avatars of "black cocks" would send a definite NO signal to me.
Berniexxx, I commend you on your avatar.