Why isn't double penetration involving the husband, more prevelant in the hot wife lifestyle?

From the point of view of the gents as discussed in length here, I guess it may feel awkward for both. Husband once brought a black guy to a foursome and none of them crossed paths in bed.
But I would also feel it quite strange. I do have great sex with husband, but it would be odd to have him penetrating me one way and a bull another way. My mindset is we make love with husband, and we make sex with somebody else. That evening I had both, but not at the same time. Strangely, that doesn't apply to FFM. That's me, at least.
. Interesting. A common view for some women. Crosses another boundary when husband also participates with BBC in her body. More than just permission or separately sharing her with BBC. Women tend to follow this with a different view of husbands.
 
DP isn't exclusive to Race but in terms of this website we are addressing black and white and cuckholding. While it seems more common that bulls exclud husbands , some make the wives perform sex acts that wives often deny the husbands such as anal sex.
Look if you like anal sex with your wife before and had it , and now the do thing comes up, and she deny you anal for a DP then she doesn't respect YOU .
Sure a game of denial can be fun part of play but never permanent, that's when it's no longer play
 
All. True. As deep throat is to oral sex , DP is to anal sex. Wives often resist anal sex with husbands so DP with wives is special. Wives who respond to anal sex often find DP also stimulating.
Wish I could understand the reason why a wife would NOT let husband anal but allow bull anal
Reading a lot here and only seems like denial part, cause let's say hubby has always wanted anal even before lifestyle, and wife always denied him .
But now in this lifestyle bull gets anal and she still denies husband ,
Give some not the typical reason like she won't feel smaller bla blah , give a reason why denying husband
 
Wish I could understand the reason why a wife would NOT let husband anal but allow bull anal
Reading a lot here and only seems like denial part, cause let's say hubby has always wanted anal even before lifestyle, and wife always denied him .
But now in this lifestyle bull gets anal and she still denies husband ,
Give some not the typical reason like she won't feel smaller bla blah , give a reason why denying husband
Anal is still somewhat taboo for many women so they’ll do it for sexual adventurism with their bull but feel it’s not right to be doing it with their life partner. Just my $0.02
 
Seems to me there are different types of relationship on here based on the individuals involved and what they want. There is recreational sex, there is consensual role playing sex, and there is dominant power sex which may or may not be fully consensual. For us its the first two - I don’t get off on her being abused and neither does she - but I imagine the answer to the question is different in each.
 
It’s not about fairness, it’s about respect. There’s lots of things we’ll do for some people but not others.

It’s not about fairness, it’s about respect. There’s lots of things we’ll do for some people but not others.
Yes , but respect should always be for husband and wife .
The fair part is give to partner first as respect , or this lifestyle causes partner to "" respect "" outsider first ? Ii think this was about why doesn't husband's partake in dp' sand one said hubby not allowed
 
Yes , but respect should always be for husband and wife .
The fair part is give to partner first as respect , or this lifestyle causes partner to "" respect "" outsider first ? Ii think this was about why doesn't husband's partake in dp' sand one said hubby not allowed
Ok no it was about anal ok for sexual adventuring and not for life partner, then I said that's not fair ,
If a life partner should not get anal but a so called sexual partner does get it , then how can that be respectful to the life partner.
If my wife won't give me anal and fights me all the time, and all of a sudden her bull gets it , can you explain how is She respecting Me her husband,
 
It's something we do on a semi-regular basis. Depends on the comfort level of who we are playing with. We love doing DP and DVP.
 
Ok no it was about anal ok for sexual adventuring and not for life partner, then I said that's not fair ,
If a life partner should not get anal but a so called sexual partner does get it , then how can that be respectful to the life partner.
If my wife won't give me anal and fights me all the time, and all of a sudden her bull gets it , can you explain how is She respecting Me her husband,
She's not. You know it. Rectify the situation post-haste.
 
Wish I could understand the reason why a wife would NOT let husband anal but allow bull anal
Reading a lot here and only seems like denial part, cause let's say hubby has always wanted anal even before lifestyle, and wife always denied him .
But now in this lifestyle bull gets anal and she still denies husband ,
Give some not the typical reason like she won't feel smaller bla blah , give a reason why denying husband
It's very simple. She fancies the bull giving her anal and not you.
 
From our experience, If you are into Double penetration ( We were ) it helps if both of the men are of a reasonable size, over the years of white on white swinging, my Wife enjoyed two reasonably well hung white guys inside Her at the same time, Including Me.
However when She discovered really big black guys, She never went back to white apart from me.
She when She found a regular BBC partner, that went on for around 10 years, She was around 48 years old,at the time He was about 32/33 years old.
He was the biggest hung guy I have ever seen and had a massive cock around 9,3/4 ins/ 10ish with a huge girth.
He fucked Her on a fairly regular basis, He also used to bring some of his mates along as well as bi/ lesbian girls, to have sex with Her on occasions.
She loved it.
She never stopped having sex with me ever, only when She was I’ll.
Having Her tell me in great detail,about what was done and said to Her, what She enjoyed etc etc, I found drove me wild, having sex with Her especially after one of Her sessions when She was still leaking cum.
We were never into me cleaning Her up etc, but have done when She wanted me to.
My main enjoyment came from Her pleasure, I have been to a few of the gang bang parties when allowed, which I thoroughly enjoyed,
However Her and Her boyfriends preferred me not to be there, as they all felt inhibited when I was there.
As time went on and video technology caught up.
I would listen for my phone to ping, and find that some one had sent a video ,( always taken on my wife’s phone ) to show me what was going on.
She would have made a wonderful porn star, but family ,******* etc put a stop to that.
We had when we were in the lifestyle an amazing sex life.
However as We are both well into our seventies all good things eventually come to an end 😜
 
. Interesting. A common view for some women. Crosses another boundary when husband also participates with BBC in her body. More than just permission or separately sharing her with BBC. Women tend to follow this with a different view of husbands.
America has been prudish and puritanical about sexuality until the last 50ish years (excluding male misogyny), and female freedom/exploration only the last 20-25.

Most of the sexual practices here come up outside of the traditional sexuality/relationship concept. We're good boys and girls until we enjoy something naughty...and being naughty frequently leads to thoughts of being naughtier, unlike the traditional sexual/relationship setting.
 
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