Discretion is one thing but why do the men on here make it so hard to meet by not filling in the information on their profile and put real pictures of them selves up and listing their location. It just waste time and frustrates women. If your not willing to open up and take the time to fill out your profile on here don't' ask us to Skype or Cam, email, phone, etc as that make us feel more vulnerable to the small but dangerous elements in society and defeats the purpose of us joining websites like this. I'm listed as a "real person" and many are not, you can see by my conversations and posting that I've actually been with some of the real Bulls on here already. I wish there was a validation section to make that are easier. Women are not just interested in you cock, it takes more than that to get us under you and let you penetrate us. You have to admit that if you were being the one penetrated you would consider it a very personal act!! See it from our point of view: Lack of information leads us to believe you could be a time wasting white picture collector, in the witness protection program, ugly, on a sexual predator list, ashamed of your sexual activities, or afraid to meet for real sex. After all aren't we all on here for the same reason? I guess not. Anyway let me start a trend: I'm in Miami and have a VERY detailed profile.