I'm 40 yrs old and my wife is 37, I have had these feelings for about 2yrs now and instead of going away, they are getting stronger. IM SO DESPARTE TO WATCH MY WIFE WITH A HUNG BLACK GUY. I consider myself as a manly man, and I'm in the process of raising a family, but I just can't get the thought of my wife with a hung black guy out of my head ! I have to admit that I'm also starting to find bbc sexually attractive myself, " I think it's the whole black superiority thing"but hey they do look far superior to us white guy's, maybe I'm turning bi ? Would love to know if anyone has the same feelings or even they will pass. Is this normal ?