Oh i already do!
Why is that?
She is 62 and loves when black men are still attracted to her.
I was only the second sex partner for my wife. She was a good, middle class church girl that had started coming out of her shell. We eventually tried swinging. She enjoyed that, but the guys were all average married white husbands. Sex was fine, but not as good as w me.
Then we met our first bull. Obviously very attractive, but during drinks he was confident, dominant, and attentive. The energy captured her. And of course back at his place, he didn’t disappoint. Subsequent bulls have been similar. Ex athlete type bodies and/or military. Strong and confident. All have kept her hooked on BBC!
Then we met our first bull. Obviously very attractive, but during drinks he was confident, dominant, and attentive. The energy captured her. And of course back at his place, he didn’t disappoint. Subsequent bulls have been similar. Ex athlete type bodies and/or military. Strong and confident. All have kept her hooked on BBC!
Maybe because white wives are drawn more to dark , muscular men that have big cocks and to them it is more about great sex than anything else.
the other reason may be that black men treat them much harder during sex , kind of make them take big black cock not just kissy face light stuff. They are fucking them and making them give up everything like their ass and or another friend at the same time.
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Your premise (upper middle class, religious, petite, and wholesome) is slightly off. Yes, I do see more interracial couples (of all types) in public. However, I was brought into this lifestyle by a wealthy, married white couple roughly 30 years ago. He was a doctor and had a side piece that his wife was aware of, and he even lined me up to fuck her. The next couple I was with was also white, and he was very successful, and she was a knockout TV personality. I wound up fucking her and her best friend, not 2 months later, during a wild 3-some.
My point is, this has always been going on behind closed doors, and most people didn't know about it. I could go on and on about the "wholesome image, upper middle class, and downright wealthy" women and couples I've had relationships with, and you would never have known or believed it happened. Most were longer-term (1-3 years) and required extensive vetting due to the need for confidentiality. However, once I was in their world, they almost all had numerous friends who were into the lifestyle and whom they shared.
So, just because you see more of it in public, don't think this just happened in the past 10-20 years.
In my experience some of the most proper dressed and appearing people can have the deepest secrets and hidden things.
Exactly, very well said. I have been in the lifestyle for 40 plus yrs
Very true !
If you give an honest judgement based on your real-world experience, do you think most Black men behave differently around a married white Woman or couple in this lifestyle as compared to white male "swingers"? If so, what's the main difference in your experience, and what do you believe might be reasons?
Thank you for sharing. 
i think it's an interesting topic, worth elaborating on.
Whether it’s a single or married white male, they always seem like every other WM. People seek out IR play for a variety of reasons. While a taboo aspect is still present, and there is an incredible beauty to the skin contrast, we have seen first hand its nearly all about the “swagger” and attitude a black bull brings.If you give an honest judgement based on your real-world experience, do you think most Black men behave differently around a married white Woman or couple in this lifestyle as compared to white male "swingers"? If so, what's the main difference in your experience, and what do you believe might be reasons?
Our bulls have been middle class professionals/military from the DC area, yet they aren’t the same as their counterpart white guys. They bring a more dominant energy. More aggressive (in a good way). They elevate my wife and make her feel desired. And maybe because they know we are specifically seeking them out, they appreciate being desired too. And because she wants their personality as much as their big cock, they appreciate her taking time to get to know them.
And then of course in bed, she can handle them fucking her as hard and dirty as they want. They appreciate the beauty and dirtiness of this “average” soccer m0m w a mouth full of huge cock eagerly working them hard.
Put simply, I believe they bring out the best in each other.
Insightful! Thanks for the share
Be proud of who you are. There's no need to be ashamed or afraid. It's all good.
But also doing some things in secret helps protect yourself from envious people and their potential harsh reactions.
Keep yourself safe but also be proud of yourself!
The freedom of sexual expression is a human right. Your sexuality may seem "out of the norm" or differ from what's communicated publicly but be aware you have the right to live out your sexuality as you choose as long it does not infringe another person's rights (i.e. it is consensual with another adult).
Stay empowered! 
My girlfriend went black at my urging and she loved it and went out to eat in local places with him then left me for him, i have no regrets as long as shes happyBe proud of who you are. There's no need to be ashamed or afraid. It's all good.
But also doing some things in secret helps protect yourself from envious people and their potential harsh reactions.
Keep yourself safe but also be proud of yourself!
The freedom of sexual expression is a human right. Your sexuality may seem "out of the norm" or differ from what's communicated publicly but be aware you have the right to live out your sexuality as you choose as long it does not infringe another person's rights (i.e. it is consensual with another adult).
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Some things need time to settle i guess. Your post reminds me of Camilla's ex husband who expressed pride in an interview after it was revealed that his wife was having an affair with the prince (now King). Well, we know how it ended. She is not his wife anymore; just like "your girlfriend" is not your girlfriend. Sorry to say but you need to see the harsh truth in order to leave it behind and build a good life going forward. All the best!I have moved on if my next girlfriend did it id be ok with it
Did what? Leave you for another guy?
"Interesting" perspective of having a relationship. 
But to each their own i guess.Similar threads
