Why Do So Many “Innocent Looking” Girls Go for Black Guys?

[MrRock107]

I’ve noticed something both in my personal life and online that has me curious. A lot of women who don’t fit the typical stereotype of who you’d expect, for example, those from upper middle class families, often raised in religious households, the kind of women people might describe as “innocent” or “all American” (like petite blondes with a wholesome image), sometimes seem especially drawn to dating Black men.

I’d love to hear if others have noticed similar patterns and what you think might explain them.

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

Looks don't tell anything. We can't look into a person's head. Those with preferences exist in all demographics. Some of whom have a preference for Black men. It is what it is and nothing special TBH.

Why are some (or many?) Women "drawn to dating Black men" (these days)? Well, just investigate online. There are plenty of attempts out there to explain that "phenomenon". But also i noticed that most of them fail. my guess is that in most cases there is not a logical explanation, just a personal preference instead (which cannot be explained using logic). Which is why finding an answer or "the one true answer" to that question is not that easy or perhaps even impossible?

 

[MrRock107]

Looks don't tell anything. We can't look into a person's head. Those with preferences exist in all demographics. Some of whom have a preference for Black men. It is what it is and nothing special TBH.

Why are some (or many?) Women "drawn to dating Black men" (these days)? Well, just investigate online. There are plenty of attempts out there to explain that "phenomenon". But also i noticed that most of them fail. my guess is that in most cases there is not a logical explanation, just a personal preference instead (which cannot be explained using logic). Which is why finding an answer or "the one true answer" to that question is not that easy or perhaps even impossible?

its just a pattern I noticed, maybe it has more to do with my location or what not

 

[wwendy]

Looks don't tell anything. We can't look into a person's head. Those with preferences exist in all demographics. Some of whom have a preference for Black men. It is what it is and nothing special TBH.

Why are some (or many?) Women "drawn to dating Black men" (these days)? Well, just investigate online. There are plenty of attempts out there to explain that "phenomenon". But also i noticed that most of them fail. my guess is that in most cases there is not a logical explanation, just a personal preference instead (which cannot be explained using logic). Which is why finding an answer or "the one true answer" to that question is not that easy or perhaps even impossible?

I agree. I do not think it can be explained. Perhaps just an innate drive.

 

[wwendy]

I think for many it is something they enjoy "behind closed doors".

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

I agree. I do not think it can be explained. Perhaps just an innate drive.

An "innate drive"? - More than people have preferences for different demographics?
(Is Women prefering white males or guys prefering hip-big Women - just two random examples - also an "innate drive"? Or else, where's the difference?)

 

[wwendy]

An "innate drive"? - More than people have preferences for different demographics?
(Is Women prefering white males or guys prefering hip-big Women - just two random examples - also an "innate drive"? Or else, where's the difference?)

Go to the websites that address those preferences and see how that goes.

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

I think for many it is something they enjoy "behind closed doors".

Maybe. But also maybe there's a shift in behavior. It may be generational - but not necessarily. i see many young Women dating Black guys openly. But also older white Women remarrying with a Black man after a divorce (often from their white ex husband).
i beleive the secretive ones are - for the most part - those in an alternative lifestyle ("married but playing" / swingers) without much difference if those "play" with additional men, Women or both; Black, white, etc. or both/all.

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

Go to the websites that address those preferences and see how that goes.

What's that mean? Please explain b/c i don't understand that statement of yours. Thank you.

 

[wwendy]

I am only stating that for some "unknown" reason, white women submitting to black males is "innate". I am not saying that some people like, "big hips"

Maybe. But also maybe there's a shift in behavior. It may be generational - but not necessarily. i see many young Women dating Black guys openly. But also older white Women remarrying with a Black man after a divorce (often from their white ex husband).
i beleive the secretive ones are - for the most part - those in an alternative lifestyle ("married but playing" / swingers) without much difference if those "play" with additional men, Women or both; Black, white, etc. or both/all.

I am divorced. I currently am with a white man. Again...closed doors. I am sure everyone has their own motives....we are all just having fun!

 

[Cuck&QOS4BBC]

I’ve noticed something both in my personal life and online that has me curious. A lot of women who don’t fit the typical stereotype of who you’d expect, for example, those from upper middle class families, often raised in religious households, the kind of women people might describe as “innocent” or “all American” (like petite blondes with a wholesome image), sometimes seem especially drawn to dating Black men.

I’d love to hear if others have noticed similar patterns and what you think might explain them.

Thats me... im definitely one of them

 

[wwendy]

What's that mean? Please explain b/c i don't understand that statement of yours. Thank you.

There are many websites designed for "black men and white women". I do not see many, if any, pertaining to "big hips", etc. I am not saying that there are many people with many different desires, but when you talk "out of the mainstream" sexual desires, white women and black men is at the top. I cannot say why, I do not know, I am merely stating a point. Some white women are "branded" with permanent or temporary tattoos, or sport clothing, showing that are "property" of black men. I do not see any other "interests" doing that. Again, just my opinion. All is good

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

There are many websites designed for "black men and white women". I do not see many, if any, pertaining to "big hips", etc. I am not saying that there are many people with many different desires, but when you talk "out of the mainstream" sexual desires, white women and black men is at the top. I cannot say why, I do not know, I am merely stating a point. Some white women are "branded" with permanent or temporary tattoos, or sport clothing, showing that are "property" of black men. I do not see any other "interests" doing that. Again, just my opinion. All is good

Thanks for your reply. But maybe you are biased based on your own "interest"? Actually there are plenty of "paraphilia"-themed dating/hook-up and forum sites out there - from "foot lovers" through "BDSM" to Women interested in white men - yes, "ironically" that also exists. ImO it is hard to say which site has the greatest number of active and real members. It's true that Bm+wW has a huge followship but also most of those are "fetishized fantasizers", often white males, not necessarily real Women and Black men into each other.

 

[MrRock107]

Thats me... im definitely one of them

how did you come about it? or was it always in you?

 

[BBCQueen78]

I’ve noticed something both in my personal life and online that has me curious. A lot of women who don’t fit the typical stereotype of who you’d expect, for example, those from upper middle class families, often raised in religious households, the kind of women people might describe as “innocent” or “all American” (like petite blondes with a wholesome image), sometimes seem especially drawn to dating Black men.

I’d love to hear if others have noticed similar patterns and what you think might explain them.

This is definitely me minus the blonde hair.

 

[MrRock107]

This is definitely me minus the blonde hair.

its definitely a pattern worth noticing

 

[BBCQueen78]

its definitely a pattern worth noticing

Yes it is. I’m not petite with blonde hair haha but the rest definitely is me.

 

[MrRock107]

Yes it is. I’m not petite with blonde hair haha but the rest definitely is me.

did you still keep up with the wholesome church girl look since you took bbc?

 

[BBCQueen78]

did you still keep up with the wholesome church girl look since you took bbc?

I only went to church to make mom happy and that normally was at Christmas. But yeah looks wise I think just by looking at me you wouldn’t think that I only take bbc.

 

[POOHBEAR2]

I’ve noticed something both in my personal life and online that has me curious. A lot of women who don’t fit the typical stereotype of who you’d expect, for example, those from upper middle class families, often raised in religious households, the kind of women people might describe as “innocent” or “all American” (like petite blondes with a wholesome image), sometimes seem especially drawn to dating Black men.

I’d love to hear if others have noticed similar patterns and what you think might explain them.

People can enjoy who they like ,you are reading too much into it