Why do single white guys looking for a cuckoldress really think they have a chance?

Discussion in 'Cuckold Forum' started by URpatheticCuck, Oct 26, 2015.

  1. URpatheticCuck

    URpatheticCuck Active Member

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    I've been looking on Facebook, here, iloveinterracial and cuckoldspace for about 10+ years. Between the bullshit women that just want a guy to be there sugar daddy, to overseas women looking to get to the USA on my back, I think I've seen it all until the next day comes. lol.
    Most of you unmarried white guys out there looking for a cuckoldress need to have a reality check. They will probably have little to no sex (without paying for it) for the duration of their lives.
    That's the reality I've seen for a long, long, time. Thanks.
     
  2. KCCUCKOLDCOUPLE

    KCCUCKOLDCOUPLE Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    The reality is that instead of looking for a cuckoldress (which, I've done, btw), what you SHOULD be looking for is a woman with a VERY high sex drive, that is VERY open minded, likes to have fun, enjoys variety, and has a slutty side she likes to come out. Are there women who might be into finding someone to cuckold? Sure. Like, one in a million. I get asked alot how I got my woman to cuckold me, or to go black. Truth is, I didn't. She has expressed the fantasy of me watching her with other men, and I happily obliged. I had the BBC fetish, so it went that direction and she loves it. I got lucky. So, it had to flow naturally. It's a monster I created, so....gotta love it, or not. MOST men, even if fantasizing about it, could not handle seeing thier woman being taken by a man with a much larger cock, let alone her enjoying, loving it, and craving it.
     
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  3. URpatheticCuck

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    Thank you for the input. Most appreciated to be sure.
     
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  4. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    .....These guys looking for women to cuckold them simply don't understand what cuckolding is all about. Usually submissive, these beta males are looking for women who will dominate them and feed their masochistic desires of humiliation, denial, etc. In other words, they enjoy being abused and want to be cuckolds. Many are bisexual and desire the closeness of other males, and by sharing a woman, they feel it gives them the opportunity to be with strong, alpha males.
    .....Women are not out there looking for weak, beta men they can cuckold. They're looking for strong, aggressive, alpha males with good jobs, etc. Women cuckold men because they have to, not because they want to. Their men have become sexually inattentive or lazy, or are simply unable to provide them the pleasure they desire, so they find other men that can provide for their needs.
    Some men respond positively to being cuckolded, while other men respond negatively. But I believe the number of men that respond negatively to a cheating female far outweigh the ones that respond positively ... the ones we read about on sites similar to this. And again, I believe a lot of these men desiring their women to cuckold them are bi-sexuals.
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  5. KCCUCKOLDCOUPLE

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    I will agree with you, in part. I am bisexual and it's great to have a woman that accepts me for that. Loves that about me. The cuckolding part of our relationship serves a number of purposes. She likes me watching, so for her there is an exhibitionist part. For me I just enjoy watching, it's truly like a live porno. We don't HAVE to do this. I don't believe she'd cheat on me. But we aren't really into the swinger lifestyle. It's true, she likes to be dominated, and I'm a bit of a switch. I can and do don't that. With men, sexually, I'm more submissive. But, make no mistake, I'm not a beta male, per se. Just a role in play. Role play. In that part of it we play. Have fun and enjoy. When we are alone, primarily I'm the Alpha male. I have no problems pleasing my woman. However, on genea, the guys who seek or desire this are likely seeking a more dominant woman, or they are beta men who need a woman who will also seek out Alpha men. Sexually speaking. As far as the ones being cheated on, with deceit, etc, I dont know. Probably many reasons, and I doubt those type of cuckold men are fantasizing about it having been cheated on by an exwife, that was a true, heart breaking horror story. That no man would be proud of.
    But if I were weak, rather than simply a strong man who has moments of weakness but rises above it, I wouldn't have the self confidence and self assurance to be okay with our lifestyle and our choice of play.
     
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  6. Kuno

    Kuno Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    It probably wouldn't be the easiest thing to bring up in the normal course of conversation. :bounce:
     
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  7. CuckCpl4BlkMenONLY

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    Words of advice to single Cuckolds is find a woman first (and mentioning you're a Cuck probably is not the best thing to tell her) and then as your relationship grows, then let her in on your secret. I'm sure some will jump right on it but some will need time and patience to slowly work towards it. Anyways, posting you're a Cuck looking for a Cuckoldress usually never works lol.
     
  8. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    Certainly a man who's wishing to serve a cuckold role with a female should be looking for the more liberalized females, not the more conservative ones. In other words, find a woman who's openingly enjoying multiple sex partners. Once you win her over, and she realizes you are receptive to her continuing with other partners, maybe ... just maybe, she'll agree to your desired arrangement. But, I'm thinking that she's going to have to see some advantages to a committed relationship, and if you're a quick cummer, little dick wimp, she's not going to be interested in hitching her wagon to a loser.
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  9. URpatheticCuck

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    Thanks for the thoughtful and helpful reply. Most appreciated.
     
  10. cuckcpl41

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    ... yes and it sooo fucking hot....
     
  11. KCCUCKOLDCOUPLE

    KCCUCKOLDCOUPLE Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    I agree. It really is!
     
  12. asian_fever

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    I am a cuck wannabe, but have no problem forging new cuck-like relationships with women. I guess, in my case, I was a cuck before my wife and I separated, so I know a little of what it is all about. And I got into many cuckold-like situations before that, and before that I was a rampant wife-fucker! Basically I am pretty experienced with this from all sides, and I know how to work situations. And of course the strategy is always to not be pushy, not desperate, not single-minded - but to be chilled, open and to LISTEN to what the woman is looking for. Inexperienced cuck wannabe's, so far as I can tell, make the mistake of being fixated on a fantasy instead of looking for human relationships.
     
  13. KCCUCKOLDCOUPLE

    KCCUCKOLDCOUPLE Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    I can agree with that. There is a little bit of luck involved, but typically a guy isn't going to take a woman who isn't sexually open minded and "get her" to want to fuck other guys. A woman either has that in her or doesnt. Also, like MAC said, if your just wanting your woman to cheat on you, and you don't have the emotional stability in the relationship, your in for a nightmare. By in large, with RARE exception, a woman isn't going to be looking for a beta boyfriend or husband. The exception is those looking for a FLR or female led relationship. There is even a website for those, but even then, only sometimes, is Cuckolding involved. Not always. I just happen to be with a woman, after many others, who, when I asked her about her deepest darkest fantasy, it was to get fucked in front of me, by another man, while I watched. That has continued and evolved for over 3 years, but ONLY because she enjoys the whole concept, MY involvement, not necessarily simply looking for something I am not or cannot provide. That's only a small part of the whole thing.
    Like I said, keep in mind, an open minded woman. Sexually liberal and open minded.
     
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