Why all the humiliation?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Djcoak, May 18, 2016.

  1. Djcoak

    Djcoak New Member

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    Why is everyone here so into the "cuckold" humiliation stuff? Where are the people who are just having fun, have wives that love and RESPECT them, but just like something a little different. My wife loved fucking BBC but wanted me involved, would never do it behind my back, and knows that love is much more than just getting a big dick in her.

    Anyone here the same way?
     
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  2. nevercanthinkof1

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    Husband here.

    Because for some, the humiliation is what the cuck gets off on. Its not for everyone, but for some, it hits an insecurity and turns it into a pain that is pleasurable.
     
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  3. youngstud716

    youngstud716 Member

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    Everyone has a turn on or preference especially whennit comes to arousal. From food to pain, humiliation is just one of those things
     
  4. Djcoak

    Djcoak New Member

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    I guess, I would rather being in a fun loving sexual relationship that being used as a pile of crap. I get the humiliation but at some point you need to be a man
     
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  5. AlfaT

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    ha not many men here! the humiliation is bmens mentality of "revenge" W womens of attention and some loser wmen buying their BS
     
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  6. sweetginny

    sweetginny Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Maybe this isn't the right place to have a rant. But maybe it is. I'm having my first cup of coffee, so thought processes are just waking up.

    I have no issues with cuckolding. If men want to be humiliated publicly by their wives, so be it. We all have our fetishes.

    I think, Djcoak, that what your seeing is not a majority of men here who are cuckold, but those who are, take every opportunity to make their fetish known.

    My rant is as follows. There is a forum for cuckold men. And, yes, general forum topics can include cuckolding so comments from cuckold men may be appropriate. However, it seems in every thread somebody has to insert some cuckold comment. Whether it follows the conversation or not. Quite frankly the proper word to describe this is an "infestation" Like someone downloading their cock picture into a lesbian thread, more often than not these comments are not applicable or wanted. Think before you say something. Lesbians aren't interested in your cock. Cuckold comments aren't appropriate in the majority of conversations. Have some respect.

    To continue. My husband is not cuckold. I have never implied that he is. But, one of the first questions seems to be "does your husband clean you afterwards". Like many men, he enjoys his wife as his "personal porn star" It adds to our sex life. He isn't, nor should anyone assume that he is bi or gay because we enjoy the swinging lifestyle.

    A couple of days ago, I had a repeat of the same old question from a man here purporting to be a "bull" "How does your husband choose a bbc for you? Would he check me out personally?"

    My reaction? YOU"RE GAY! We aren't into gay or bi men. You aren't a bull if you're into men. Are you in this site to meet men? Go to a gay site then. There are many of them.

    We want to have fun here too. Meet some men and enjoy the lifestyle. But, like I said before, there is an infestation. Really starting to be annoying to the point that I'm thinking of backing off on my involvement.

    Rant is done.
     
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  7. valentina81

    valentina81 Active Member

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    Great point here - you aren't a bull if you're into men. My most recent lover would never have let or wanted my partner to watch or take part. It was, for him, an affair, plain and simple. He didn't know that my partner knew everythin that was going on in great detail
     
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  8. sweetginny

    sweetginny Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    My hubby likes to watch. Like I said, I'm his personal porn star. But nothing would turn me and him off quicker than the man I'm with making sexual advances to him. That would get him out the door very quickly. With his clothes possibly following him soon afterwards.
     
  9. Djcoak

    Djcoak New Member

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    My point exactly. While I love watching my wife with black men, the man is really nothing more than a living dildo. I don't mean that disrespectfully but he would never get my wife to be "his". He is there to give her something different, not replace me
     
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  10. mywayintermsofsex

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    @sweetginny... continuing your rant ;) : There is a place for almost everything. And with over 6 billion humans on this ball we call our home, i am pretty sure that almost everything, fetishes, fantasies, ... exists somewhere. In agreement to your post i say there are right and wrong places for everything. Real people respect that. Most of all it`s fake people and pretenders who want to impose their fantasy BS on others with different interests by off-topic postings. :(

    Please, everyone, note that there is also a story forum on B2w! This forum is called General Discussion!

    Personally, i like to discuss. With real people. i like the hotwife and swinging lifestyles. i like watching Bm-on-wW-ir porn flicks and pictures. But, please, i want to choose what time i do what. Hot "amateur" women in pictures are great. Especially when they are intimate with Black men. Everyone, please, note that there are photo forums for that purpose! When i feel like that i will check there. This forum is called General Discussion!

    Likewise, like some others, i am in search for a respectful handsome man with great "skills" for my lady, and know there are dating forums for that purpose! i don`t want to read personal ads in the General Discussion forum. Please, respect that!

    i am not into meeting men for myself nor do i want to chat with them in a sexual way. If you are interested in something like that it`s fine, but, please, notice there is a bisexual cuckold forum available on B2w too. Don`t bother and approach me when you are a man into men. i don`t say it is wrong to be gay, but it would only be a waste of time you could alternatively spend with someone who likes it instead.

    Please, don`t PM me when you are not invited or already suspect we won`t click in a conversation anyway.

    Please, don`t annoy me with your impregnation or castration fantasies! Bother others who like that on the extreme alternative sex forum, just go and get lost there, but not in the General Discussion forum!

    If you`d like to talk about last night`s football game, religion or politics, it`s fine. Blacktowhite is bound to a topic, as you could have guessed, but great there is an Off-Topic Discussion forum as well.

    Please, everyone, be aware that your own level of pleasure, and acceptance you obtain from others will be higher when you bring up your own interests respectfully to like-minded people whom you have a far higher chance to meet in the appropriate forums!

    Let`s keep (or make :devil: ) this a worthwhile place! And, please, by no means scare away from this site nice and valuable members like @sweetginny, but try to make them feel like they want to stay.

    My rant is now over and out. TY for reading.
     
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  11. mywayintermsofsex

    mywayintermsofsex Active Member

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    To get back to the OP`s question...
    We are (about :angel: the same)! ;)
     
  12. Djcoak

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    When I did watch my wife the one time it was hot how she was telling me she loved me even as he was inside her. We wanted her to ride his reverse cowboy so we could make out as she slid up and down but we didn't get there lol
     
  13. calixto

    calixto Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Sometimes we say "humiliation" when we really wish to say "submission".
    When my wife and me were intimate friends before to get a serious relationship, she usually talk to me about her sexual life with her black boyfriend Axel. I realized that he was a frist class male with a bull's virility. This quality from him, plus the fact that he was having sex with the girl that I was in love, developed in me a couple of feelings of submision, interracial fetish and admiration and envy at the same time for him.
    I really wished to be there watching them fucking in front of me, assisting them in all what they needed, even giving him a blowjob if he asked me to do it. I was disposed to leave my male role apart to surrender before Axel's virility.
    I considered him a better male tham myself. He wouldn't be who was trying to humiliate me but I was the one who would surrender before his alpha male quality.
    Are you able to see the difference?
     
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  14. Djcoak

    Djcoak New Member

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    Nope I don't. The fact you married a woman who cheated you behind your back and thinking him better than you seems pretty pathetic. Sorry if I am harsh but that's how I see it. Not my thing.
     
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  15. curiouscouple19

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    For myself and my wife we havent had the chance to have someone join us. She did hve sex with a guy about 6 years ago which was my cousin. I didnt know till after she got home and we were have sex. He did have a bigger cock than me and it turned me on knowing that. I had her tell me all the details of that night and from all the guys she had fucked before we were together. It turned me on. My pleasure cums from knowing she is being pleasured weather it is from a dildo or my tounge or another cock. But in the same token i know that a bigger cock makes her feal better and gives her more pleasure. So when i am fucking her and she tells me to fuck her harder ot that she cant feel my little cock or something like that with my little cock it gets me going more and i want her to to feel as good as she did with tht big cock. If that makes any sence to you.
     
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  16. HumiliateMe4BBC

    HumiliateMe4BBC Active Member Real Person

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    I don't get the whole cuckolding thing either, but for me its the whole breeding fantasy. Like really you want to risk STDs?
     
  17. BethLuvsBBConly

    BethLuvsBBConly Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    What difference does it make? (Sorry Hilary for stealing your words) Why does anyone feel the necessity to demean another person's desires? I am sure many straight couples think what we do is disgusting. For a site dedicated to IR sex and yes cuckolding, I would expect more tolerance!
     
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  18. mywayintermsofsex

    mywayintermsofsex Active Member

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    You have a point here. But not only is this site dedicated to "ir" and cuckolding but also there are appropriate places "inside" this site for different "desires". Why do so many not respect that but try to impose their personal fetishes on onthers who have different desires, or even offend them? It`s annoying and may even expel good people from this site. :(

    BTW, the OP, @Djcoak, has asked a valid question here without disrespect for anyone. It is not a problem that people are different - it`s good! But respect goes both ways...
     
  19. atm4fun

    atm4fun New Member

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    That's how my wife is. Just lets have some fun.
     
  20. sweetginny

    sweetginny Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Clarify for me please. Or have a moderator clarify for me. Is this site for Interracial AND Cuckolding? Or is it an Interracial site. And are cuckolding, bi, lesbian and other fetishes sub sections?

    I thought the reason for the various forums was so that people could talk about them and those who weren't interested didn't have to read them.

    Correct me if I'm wrong please.
     
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