Who Reaches Out, Mr. or Mrs?

[Xperienced]

I prefer playing with attached playmates and cheating wives. There’s less risk of emotional attachment, pregnancy, std, less time and committment, less expensive, spectacular sex, etc...

I’ve been on various sites and have had a decent amount of luck. I’ve also had my time wasted, pics collected, and even dupped into a meet and greet where just a guy showed up.

The successes I’ve had, have all started with the Mr. reaching out or replying.
So, it’s my experience that the likely hood that I’m communicating with a real cpl is greater when the Mr. has reached out or replied.

I know that women enjoy online interaction and message and comment on medua and threads, but I’ve not hooked up with any of them.

I realize that my sample size isn’t large enough to draw an accurate conclusion.

So I’m asking you freaks, the 1s that actually have real hook ups, which half of your pair initially correspondences with a potential bull?

 

[Kuno]

Back in the days before the group I learned that I needed to talk both parties if both are going to be present during the encounter. I got into a bad situation several years ago where the male wanted to surprise his wife, it didn't go well

That was a surprise for her, all right!

 

[Mootje]

Husband. Wife won’t deal with the 90 pct of fakes, jerks and pervs Always had me do the screening

HA! a smart sexy ass hehehehehe

 

[Loveithard]

I’m the one who reaches out and sets things up. I’m the husband

 

[Couple70]

Good luck on your hunt

 

[Blonde Wife PAWG]

In general we mostly just meet men while were out dancing or at a bar. We enjoy face to face more then typing on a computer.
When we were first swinging on sls we both would correspond with other interested males and couples.

Our sex life is returning to normal and we are in a place to explore shared desires now.

We've discussed BBC and got close before having a baby.

Leaning towards a date night to dress her slutty and get her to black clubs, have new online BBC friends "bump" into us and with a game plan, drinks, flirting, etc letting nature take its course.... rather than a series of conversations. Again.
Make sense?

 

[ErikaPeter]

At the beginning, my husband would find potential bulls, screen them online or by telephone, and meet them. If they seemed suitable, I would speak with them by telephone, and then in person, and move quickly to bed with them if there was chemistry. After about a year, I began finding my own bulls. Now, I am the exclusive initiator.

 

[Marriedwife4bbc]

I reach out, hubby arranges date

 

[Atxbruh]

My wife tasks me with vetting and screening anyone and trusts me to OK them or not. She knows I know what she likes and trusts that if I'm fine with them she will be too

 

[sbcplseeking1]

I reach out because I cannot see how my husband can pick a guy for me to be with. I have had to deal with all the BS that comes along with it but I also have more control and assert by choosing my own mate.

 

[White Satin]

Any man who claims to be a "bull" and get's put off by talking with the husband/cuckold first is NOT a "bull" he's a chump that thinks way to highly of himself. He is there as a guest, and if he cant handle sealing with the husband then he isn't worth another look because he is not there because of the lifestyle.

 

[Stevens]

Wife worked for a big company, and she flirted with those she wanted to bed so we'd say she handled the initial contacts. We came to like the married co-worker sex best as wife had the chance to observe the men from time to time, understood their marital status, etc. etc. It also afforded the opportunity to meet in hotel rooms at the company's expense and to travel with the boss and check into hotels as his wife.