I couldn't agree more with your initial post upb. Personally the common demoniator I see is open, honest communication. If you don't have that in any type of relationship, I believe its just a waste of time. I tend to me a very blunt, upfront person, which I understand isn't for everybody. But being respectful no matter the situation is a must, but more importantly respecting yourself.
I don't believe woman should be spoken about as objects or possessions, including putting one above yourself. Now, obviously if someone chooses in their personal life to be treated that way, who am I to judge.
The main aspect I focus on is, who's expense is it at? And if it is at that person's expense, do they agree with it? There are too many situations where a woman and sometimes a man doesn't agree with the level of expense that they are being ****** to experience, that's when the line is crossed and it is abuse. But, referring back to what I said earlier, honest communication and respecting the person's point of view can go along way.
Thanks for listening and sharing your opinion,
Devilsadvocate
p.s. About Breeding, the only other situation where I have heard of children being "bred" took place in Germany during Adolf Hitler's oppressive rule to "breed" a superior or pure race. The woman were also viewed as objects who's only purpose was to bare children. This idea of "breeding" in any case is appalling, because that act is done at the baby's expense, which is never acceptable. As long as the baby's interest is of primary importance, i think specific situations can occur that are taboo, so to speak, where a baby being born is a wonderful thing regardless of race. I stand firm in my belief, it must never be done at the baby's expense, anything beyond that is pure selfishness.
*the term for little person or baby that I used was censored, so I have changed it to make sure it made sense.