i thought I would bring a different perspective since there is a thread about what a "BBC's rules are for white women." It's only fair that we too have rules, or expected rules, when it comes to having sex with a BBC. Mine are simple, 1- Be respectful 2- Be clean 3- Please "me" first 4- Don't expect me to be "your" slut, I'm my husbands slut first and foremost. 5- When I say "don't move" don't! I know what I'm doing 6- Don't just lick my pussy, I want it eaten, and eaten well. 7- My husband will, or will not participate, deal with it either way. 8- Don't push my head down if I'm sucking your cock. 9- You are welcome to suck my nipples, but what gets me off is below the waist. 10- Expect to play safe, unless we say otherwise. 11- Give me time, I have feelings too. Feel free to dismiss mine as we all have our own idiosyncrasies. I would like to see other women's ideas about this phenomenon.