My wife and I want to take the plunge and try this for real instead of just fantasizing. Here is our information - we are in our late 30's and fit attractive to very attractive. She is Jewish, 5'1 and 105lbs - I'm 6'0, 170lbs. She currently has a boyfriend but he is freaked out about me and keeps thinking that I'm going to kick his ass or something. So it looks like I will never get to see it happen or participate unless we find someone else - his loss. She likes to be dominated - gently. She likes thicker over longer. She loves to smile, kiss, laugh and feel sexy. She is very affectionate. For this experience I will play the part of the cuckold. I will follow directions and prep her for you - hold her legs open, kiss her after you've been in her mouth etc. I want to experience the whole range and she wants to do this with me. I am willing to sit in the corner and stay out of the way. And I would love to be ordered to kneel and kiss her clit while you are inside her. There is a chance that she will not want to go further than a blow job - thats life. I'm okay with her being pushed around, slapped (lightly), spanked (medium) ordered around and verbally abused/turned on - I want to hear her admit she loves 'black cock'. We both want her to feel 'turned out'. That being said - you do need to know how to please a lady and not just bang away mindlessly. We would like to meet up soon - we are not planning on hosting but that could change. We would need to meet in a public yet intimate space to talk and see if there is chemistry. Ideally we want a guy that can go a couple of times over a couple of hours and play out different scenarios and positions - and she would love to finish with you in the shower. It may go against the custom of this site, from what I've read - but I feel it I need to state that I won't actually let any harm come to her in any way - so everything would need to be very discreet and defiantly not sketchy - in the end this a fantasy for us to play out and it's my job to protect her - but I can act the wimp for the night. Charming, handsome, hip and of course thicker all a plus.