In my case, I am attracted to beautiful women out of my league and with a high sexual energy. Those are also the kind that tend to stray. In order to ensure Im not going to have to be paranoid of an affair and to ******* any reason for temptation (based on sexual satisfaction) I discovered I liked and got off on cuckolding and could accept it may be necessary from time to time for us all. Im not small though not hung. Im somewhat handsome with high self esteem and confidence but after time passes in a relationship things can get stale and women with those traits need attention and get bored. Therefore my cuckolding definition for myself is that I accept my woman has probably always needed more than 1 sexual partner whether she realizes it or not and Im going to take the lead and introduce other hung black males for that purpose. I also get off majorly on being there to witness my wife pleasure her bulls and seeing how happy she gets when her lovers are around because it is evidence I was right. So I like seeing how eager she is to suck her lovers large cock and how natural and calm she is when its time to lay down and spread her legs open so he can insert his massive cock inside her pussy. And in return I want to experience with her and enjoy being truthfully humiliated by her during and after. And am open to where it could lead: boyfriends, long term, creampies, fluffing, vacations, wherever it leads as long as her and I are happy and our marriage healthy. Which this made it healthier in some ways during our time together.