I have been confused by the many different opinions expressed on this site regarding the relationships between black men, white women, and white boys. Many of the people seem to be swingers and many of the white guys seem to continue to have sex with their wives, even if it is sloppy seconds. In my opinion there is something wrong about all of this. When a white boy has sex with a white woman he is taking the place of a black man that could be filling that role. It does not matter if the woman is his wife or girlfriend. She is a woman. When he has sex with her after the black man has been with her he is using the black man for his own fantasies and to make his own sexual experience that much greater. This seems selfish and can do nothing less than diminish the real sex that should be taking place between the white woman and the black man. The black man may not care that the wife is with the white husband/boy. But he just might. It shows a lack of respect by the white guy. It also puts the wife in a difficult situation of trying to please two masters. There can only be one master. I think the complex relationships would be best served if the white boy submits. I don't think that this should mean that he announces he is not going to have sex anymore. That would put him in charge and the sex act decisions should be by the black man and the white woman. I think the better way would be for him to ask the wife if she would be happier by really cuckolding him. He should explain that he would be even more supportive of her and her lovers if he is kept out of the picture, at least in terms of actual sex. I have this idea that many women say they want intimacy and some sex with their white boy husbands. But deep down I suspect they are thinking of other men and are doing this to keep the marriage together and out of pity. Real is real and living a fantasy life of unnatural sex is just not healthy for anybody. The submission of the white boy is not just about sex, of course. It is about everything. But the sexual deficiencies of boys like me are so extreme that this is the key that gets the white woman and the black man together. Service and submission for the white boy. This is not easy but it is the right thing to do. Of course, I am saying all of this from the point of view of interracial cuckolding. This may be the most natural relationship for everyone to be in but I know there are others out there living vanilla lives. Having said that if the white boys quit trying to control things and just let the couple be in charge I bet the majority of white women in this country will be with black men only. It is just how it is. Sorry about the rambling but I would be interested in how others think about this. It may all be a little deep but little white boys have their thoughts. The real men have other things that the women might prefer.