Do any other white males enjoy serving black men outside of the bedroom?
I have had a situation in the past with my girlfriends lover. When he would come over to see her, I would take his car and get it washed and fill the tank with gas.
Fetch them both food, and do other various things.
I have spoiled guys, and especially enjoy amazon wishlists, etc.
It can be a taboo bonding experience in its own way.