Cute is just another way to tease. It means we are small without coming out and sayi g it, so I get knocked down a notch one peg at a time. She destroys me ego slowly, so it makes me even hesitant and humble, so after a white girl sees how she puts me in my place and I become shy and less manly, then I seem even more like the weak beta male when she finds a Black Man who just takes her.