My hubbys tiny white dick just doesnt satisfy me since I began sleeping with black men 
When the husband doesn't know.
- Thread starter BlackInWhitePNW
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Satisfy your black men sweetheart forget about the hubby for a few and open your legs and do it
I love it too, but like any 'addiction' you can get carried away. I certainly recommend keeping hubby or partner up to date with who you're seeing and what you're doing with guys. When I stopped seeing my regular guy end of last Summer, he passed my details to some friends. I went out with one of these guys but told hubby it was same guy. This later caused some small trust issues with hubby when he found out, especially as my name seemed to be on a 'list' of guys all keen to meet up and hubby wasnt aware!
Im not going to risk things again and keep him fully aware now!
Im not going to risk things again and keep him fully aware now!
I love sneaking around its the best...you only live once I say..its just sex (best sex ever) but just sex
As I have said before women are much better at deception than men areMy husband has no idea, and that's the way I like it. That way I can spend his money on sexy clothes for myself and going out to the club, buying IR porn, buying my black men jewlery or whatever they want, etc.
He has no idea I got on the pill either, so I don't let him fuck me without a condom. Nor do I swallow for him. (I told him I read it was bad for you, haha). As long as I'm there when he gets home from work in the evenings, and I make dinner and clean the house, he's happy. And with him working long hours and taking business trips frequently, I get to play while he is away alot!
I mentioned to one of my bed partners some time ago my concern over what her husband might notice about her after I was done with her. She told me that if he had been fucking her regularly she wouldn't be in my bed. She said if he ever complained about loose pussy she would suggest that he spend more time in it exercising it. There is an exercise I believe it is called the Kegel exercise or something like that. It tones up the muscles and make for a tight pussy
BlackInWhitePNW
Male
I'd have to disagree that one is worse than the other... as much as the lady cheating also turns me on. There's no difference in regard to the breaking of trust/commitment though.
I know exactly what you are saying and yes it does have a bit of thrill to it, but what about a BBC's wife not knowing?
Rachel Weiss
Female
I agree. My husband has no idea I am dating a black guy. It hasn’t been going on long, but I know now that this is something that I will be doing for a long time, maybe the rest of my life, whether my husband likes it or not. I guess I have just fallen out of love with him now I have found someone better,
Ultimately, though, I don’t want to be sneaking around behind his back, so after a lot of thought I have made up my mind to tell him that I am cheating on him. Not looking forward to that scene I can tell you.
I hope it goes well. Only you know him and you already know what he is going to say.
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This is truer than you think. My first BBC kept saying he was going to ruin me for my husband. I didn't know what he meant until I had him and he was right.
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Rachel Weiss
Female
I do. He will scream, cry, probably kick and punch the wall, get hysterical. That's why I mentioned in another thread that I want my black lover Jamaal to be there when I tell him, so things don't get out of hand.
Oh my you really want trouble don't you. What does Jamaal think about that?
Rachel Weiss
Female
No, of course I don't want trouble, that's why Jamaal should be there, to make sure my husband behaves and doesn't go off the rails. He's more likely to be calm if Jamaal is there, and frankly I would feel more confident to state my feelings if Jamaal was by my side, as he looks quite intimidating
Jamaal has been very good about this, and said that he will support me however I want to go about this. I think he's so sweet and kind to support me,
Good luck with that and I hope it goes well. It is always hard when you know someone is going to get hurt.
Rachel Weiss
Female
Thanks for your support DCDC. I'm sure my husband will take some time to accept the situation, but Jamaal has said he could take me on vacation to Paris or Martinique afterwards, to give my husband time to come to terms with the new situation. Jamaal is very generous, but he is also smart. He says that time heals, which is so true.
There is also the issue of who will stay on in the house if we go our separate ways. My husband will probably want to stay put, but I love my house and garden and would prefer that my husband got a studio somewhere. That is something we need to talk about too. Jamaal says that the fact the house is in my name would mean that my husband must move out if we want him to.
There is also the issue of who will stay on in the house if we go our separate ways. My husband will probably want to stay put, but I love my house and garden and would prefer that my husband got a studio somewhere. That is something we need to talk about too. Jamaal says that the fact the house is in my name would mean that my husband must move out if we want him to.
Personally, I feel that this part of my lifestyle and personality has very little, if anything to do with the affection he has for her. This is simply nature in it's most purest, rawest form.
we have been lucky too, we have talked about this for over a year and she wants a bf and the more we talk about it the more we just think this is the way things will be in the future. its not easy when the husband isnt a good lover but it happens and if the wife can find someone to make her happy than its fine. i hope it gets easier for people to understand that and then it can be more out in the open
Rachel Weiss
Female
Wish my hubby could see it that way Chris but he is too proud
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