What you said about "safe words" reminded me of a "Nip Tuck" episode about a Husband and Wife who was invited to an Interracial Swing Party by his black friend and just before they entered, they both agreed that if anything went too far, the safe word would be "Big-Wheel". As they entered the party and saw all the wives involved with black guys while husbands stood near-by watching, I found it really funny while they were using the restroom in one of the bedrooms and as they were exiting the bedroom, a white couple, along with a black guy, entered the room where the black guy immediately started getting it on with the guys wife. While leaving the door open, the couple stood in the doorway watching and it was obvious that the wife was very into watching the other wife starting to have sex with the black guy...the husband, noticing his wife glued to the scene, suddenly started saying the safe word "Big-wheel" several times, even yelling it to her before he broke her from being so mezmorized about what she was watching.... I always thought that episode was sooo fuckin' funny....
That's why you gotta start by leaving your white hubby at home tied up.
