I am pretty sure this question has been asked before but here goes? This is for all the ladies. At what point did your attraction for black men surface? Was it something you had ever since you liked boys when you were young or did it develop as you got older? If it developed at a later age, what triggered it? Porn, a black guy flirting with you, your significant other telling you he wishes you would do that, girl talk, etc etc. i am curious to hear some feedback .