Ebonics, derogatory/humiliating intent, racism. Pick your vitriol, dude. Either way its bad grammar and spelling and should be avoided. One thing I don't tolerate is racism from anyone we include in our lifestyle. Bulls are chosen based on respect, calling me white boy or any other racist term is a quick way to remove yourself from the list of bulls we choose from. Proper spelling and grammar in messages is something we look for. We expect respect up front and if you can't even send a nicely written message we're not likely to consider you. Calling her a whore, slut, or other derogatory term to address her in a written message, especially when we've never met you, is a quick way to ensure you never fuck her. We both read messages from prospective bulls. We don't do coffee dates either. Had too many people just flake or not show up.