We!! Hubby involved? Watch or join in??? I started earlier in life. Best friend was black. She got me into it.
But this is only me speaking, it can be VERY hard on you & your marriage. It's great to be filled up, but when your around our age do you really want to take a chance of wrecking your marriage. Most men want say they want to see you with a BBC but 90% can't deal with it & there's THE problem