What women need from porn... something to masturbate to...

Angelyn

Female
This weekend I was looking through my collection of pictures for something to masturbate to, and I found these two pictures. And I just felt the need to comment on them.


Porn can be much more women friendly, without being any less hardcore and gritty.


Women will masturbate to nearly the same things as men. Just male porn with some relatively easily attained tweaks.


Take for example, my pixes of Missy Monroe here. These come from a collection of Missy posing solo.


I look at Missy posing. I get turned on.


But I don’t get turned on by the sight of her nipples or clit. I’m not a lesbian, so I have no particular interest in these things. I am turned on by Missy’s costume, which I would also like to wear, and which I fantasize will give me the male sexual attention that I crave. The costume hits all the right notes: skimpy, red, chains, choker collar, shameless exposure of breasts, buns not covered, stockings. If I actually put on something like that, I would also be only thinking about sex.


And now I come to the problem with male porn. Where’s the guys? Why are men missing? Why do men not identify with the presence of men in porn pictures?


Women get turned on not by the sight of skimpily clad women, but by the sight of said females being lusted after by powerful, dominant men. We want to be the girls who are at the center of attention!


And now that is the BIG problem about the so-called interracial porn. In Missy’s picture collection, there were maybe 48 pictures of Missy posing. I scrolled through them real quick, as though Missy was posing and moving around.


There were 2 pictures of Missy with a man. And WTF, these were terrible pictures!


Please look at these pictures and tell me honestly.


Black man with folded arms looking and lusting after skimpily clad white woman. Good.


Black man in cap and t-shirt and cheap, lousy unfashionable pants and a dweeb look on his face. Total turn off.


Can Missy actually feel eager to expose herself and pose in front of this loser? No. No woman would enjoy having attention from that piece of garbage.


For a while, the Brobang/ Interracial Blowbang series got it right. They had lots of black men, and they dressed these guys in suits (even if mostly ill fitting props). The white girl would be paraded across the guys, and she would usually be skimpily clad or crawling or on her knees.


If I’m going to masturbate to the sight of a skimpily clad woman playing with her body, she needs to be on a stage or be the center of attention. And she needs to be surrounded by men with solid frames and steady gazes. These guys need to wear clothes advertising wealth and dominance, and they need to look strong and confident.
 

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I only watch interracial porn, and I only watch interracial porn starring me. That is not because I am so egomaniac. It's because it allows me to relive each hot moment and appreciate all the little things I might have missed because I was lost in the heat of the moment.

I like to play with my vibe while I'm doing this. I am never consciously aware of the hot sex talk at the time, but love to hear it later. I LOVE it if he moans with pleasure when he first pushes into my pussy or makes a comment about how I feel tight for him. I especially love (and try to) to make myself cum with my vibe at the same that my BBC king is cumming for me. It gets me off knowing I brought him pleasure.

Everyone is different, but to me, the best porn is reliving the real moments I've experienced all over again.
 
And just to write this as a rejoinder...

Women don't care that much about pictures of big dicks. What we care about, are the social relations in the pictures.

Men perpetually seem to think that sending penis photos is a great way to get sex. No, it isn't. We are NOT turned on by solo penis photos.

You want to show off your dick, make sure there is another woman in the picture. It's ok if she has a slutty, submissive look on her face and is licking your balls.

If I identify with that woman, and if your body is nice (I like lines and definition), we can advance to second base.
 
I only watch interracial porn, and I only watch interracial porn starring me. That is not because I am so egomaniac. It's because it allows me to relive each hot moment and appreciate all the little things I might have missed because I was lost in the heat of the moment.

I like to play with my vibe while I'm doing this. I am never consciously aware of the hot sex talk at the time, but love to hear it later. I LOVE it if he moans with pleasure when he first pushes into my pussy or makes a comment about how I feel tight for him. I especially love (and try to) to make myself cum with my vibe at the same that my BBC king is cumming for me. It gets me off knowing I brought him pleasure.

Everyone is different, but to me, the best porn is reliving the real moments I've experienced all over again.

Gosh, You're so lucky! Having the best opportunity to "imagine Yourself being in such a situation" because You actually have ?
 
OK, just got hold of a cover that has some of the elements I find most erotic.

I'll just post it first, and lets see some responses.
The power dynamic. No cocks or pussies in view. Just a very clear message. The viewer’s mind fills in the blanks.
This stuff really works for me.
 
I think your first two photos are slightly off message. Sure, her outfit is alluring, but the guy has not contributed to the dynamic.

If you take this one as an example
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What are we reading here?

For me it says “this is the pinnacle of white womanhood, and I’m about to use her in ways you can only dream of”
 
Angelyn. I would like your opinion on this as a woman.

For me, this is wrong
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This is right
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You’re down there to serve that black cock. I don’t want you looking at me. You need to keep your eyes on your black master. Seek his approval and show him respect.
 
Bunny Hunter, I think you didn't read my opening post. How typical of men, to focus on only the pictures and not read the text! I was strongly critical of the dynamic visible in my original posts

You also didn't read my posts on another thread. https://www.blacktowhite.net/thread...-needs-as-she-gets-older.160405/#post-2424826
I know you guys want the pornstar to look at the camera because you want to see her face. As I identify with the female pornstar, I will also look at her face because I empathize with her. But it is not natural for submissive women to look men in the eye. When I am in a submissive mood I avoid eye contact.

In one mental sequence, I am being marched around, naked or scantily clad, wearing a dog collar and heels, hands tied or cuffed, in front of a squad of black men all making aggressive comments about me. They slap me and spank me (lightly). I find this super erotic.

In that mental sequence, not once do I look up. I just can't see myself looking up. I'm just too scared and dominated by their rough language and aggressive handling.

BTW in this mental sequence or fantasy I am penetrated with fingers and sex toys. But not penises. I'm surprisingly, or well not that surprisingly since it's pretty common among women, not that crazy about full penile sex. It's the environment that I find more arousing.

How to make realistic porn like that? You will need multiple cameras. But it's entirely doable.
 
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For me, it's imagining myself in the setting. I tend to prefer amature pictures over professional photo shoots. To me, they just look exactly what they are, staged.

A natural setting, the woman obviously enjoying herself, that's what gets the juices flowing.

Another thing, the anticipation! Seeing the cock approaching, the look of desire, the woman ready, all does that for me!

Just a dick pic? Quick way to turn me off. Yeah, you have one, so what? I have it on good account that 99 percent of the male population has one! But give me a good setting and I'll constantly return to it.

thank you for giving me the opportunity to express my thoughts on the topic! Great thread!
 
Bunny Hunter, I think you didn't read my opening post. How typical of men, to focus on only the pictures and not read the text! I was strongly critical of the dynamic visible in my original posts

You also didn't read my posts on another thread. https://www.blacktowhite.net/thread...-needs-as-she-gets-older.160405/#post-2424826
I know you guys want the pornstar to look at the camera because you want to see her face. As I identify with the female pornstar, I will also look at her face because I empathize with her. But it is not natural for submissive women to look men in the eye. When I am in a submissive mood I avoid eye contact.

In one mental sequence, I am being marched around, naked or scantily clad, wearing a dog collar and heels, hands tied or cuffed, in front of a squad of black men all making aggressive comments about me. They slap me and spank me (lightly). I find this super erotic.

In that mental sequence, not once do I look up. I just can't see myself looking up. I'm just too scared and dominated by their rough language and aggressive handling.

BTW in this mental sequence or fantasy I am penetrated with fingers and sex toys. But not penises. I'm surprisingly, or well not that surprisingly since it's pretty common among women, not that crazy about full penile sex. It's the environment that I find more arousing.

How to make realistic porn like that? You will need multiple cameras. But it's entirely doable.

Angelyn. Hands up, guilty as charged. It seems the porn which works for you is entirely compatible with what would work for a typical man such as myself.
 
And now I come to the problem with male porn. Where’s the guys? Why are men missing? Why do men not identify with the presence of men in porn pictures?

I totally agree with your post. Even on pretty high quality porn like Blacked.com, it is hard to find male models that are on the same level of attractiveness than the women they are in stage. Sometimes is really infuriating, you have a beautiful women wearing Lise Charmel or Agent Provocateur and the guy looks like trying to find money in his pocket to buy a scratch off lottery ticket at seven eleven.

I hear long time ago that in male oriented porn the role of the man is to be almost a non-entity, providing the viewer with an opportunity to imagine himself in the action. With IR, I think that assumption is not valid, and even if it were so, we can make really hot scenes with two good looking persons. There is a reason that even with so much material on the internet people keep having their minds blown away when there is a sex scene on tv or a movie.

I guess some companies, like 21naturals, are becoming more aware, but still a long way for the IR niche of porn.
 
I totally agree with your post. Even on pretty high quality porn like Blacked.com, it is hard to find male models that are on the same level of attractiveness than the women they are in stage.

Worse than that, the men are usually terribly dressed.

Even though I probably rank on the bottom 1% of women when it comes to dress sense, I'm still better than 75% of men. Men have no clue how important it is to dress well.

I posted https://www.blacktowhite.net/attachments/1593715h-jpg.2735779/ to stimulate some discussion. Shane Diesel is wearing SANDALS! And I seem to have seen him in that black shirt and straight cut, torn jeans a bunch of times before. Does he even change? Does his mum wash his pants for him?

Once again that is one potentially erotic video cover ruined by the cluelessness of the male actor. Even Donald Trump dresses better than that.
 
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