So we have been coming up with some ideas to change up what has been done in past. These are some things we have come up with of top of our head. To give you rundown we have always done this together with him taking pictures and video and there for my protection, etc. This has worked good, but at times has caused some worries on both parts as sometimes I worry he might not like something I do or say, etc. This is not bog issue, just something I worry about. Any comments on what I write or suggestions I did not think of will be appreciated. By the way before it is stated he will not do cleanup or anything with the guy and do not want him to, though he will fuck me after I am full LOL and I like that.. So we have thought of the following, though it would be very exciting for him and kill him at same time and make me nervous.. 1) At swing club or if we were to meet up I give the sign or let him know I will be away for a little while and then to come find me if somebody catches my eye and we hit it off. This would give me some time to be alone and get started and loose a little of the inhibitions. I think it would be hot for him to walk in and find me with BBC in me or me sucking on it, etc.. 2) Meet up alone if the guy is good and we are comfortable. You know a nighttime date and encounter or midday snack somewhere and not tell him till I was there or on way home. Maybe get fucked in the Expedition or suck the guy off, the thoughts are endless like a hotel romp or visit to his house if lives alone and close by.. 3) If we meet somebody somewhere somewhat secluded and can be done discretely, as never did before but brought it up, flirt heavily and maybe let guy finger me under the table sitting next to him for a tease or something like that. 4) Buying some outfits I only wear out for those special occasions and not for him per say or some lingerie for the guys only. Any other suggestions or advice to play with?