WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG HERE WITH THIS SITE?

The OP expresses many of our feelings and those are the reasons we visit this site less and participate less.

Basically, NOT EVERYONE is into the hubby humiliation, black race is superior, cut the balls off of all white hubbies, get all white wives pregnant with black children from a bull who will never offer a cent of financial or other support scene. But if you read the forums those are the principal scenes replayed ad nauseum.

Some of us, and apparently a precious few, are just into interracial but that is not what this place is all about which is why we stop in to laugh and roll our eyes at the posts of those who are into the cuck sillines. You know, those who live in fantasy land, have an intellectual IQ of 12 and spend most of their days wanking off to the drivel that permeates this site.
 
The OP expresses many of our feelings and those are the reasons we visit this site less and participate less.

Basically, NOT EVERYONE is into the hubby humiliation, black race is superior, cut the balls off of all white hubbies, get all white wives pregnant with black children from a bull who will never offer a cent of financial or other support scene. But if you read the forums those are the principal scenes replayed ad nauseum.

Some of us, and apparently a precious few, are just into interracial but that is not what this place is all about which is why we stop in to laugh and roll our eyes at the posts of those who are into the cuck sillines. You know, those who live in fantasy land, have an intellectual IQ of 12 and spend most of their days wanking off to the drivel that permeates this site.

Agree 100%. It would be fine if that crap was in the fantasy sections of the site but it is in every forum. At least half the people who contacted us when we joined were either men posing as women or white guys posing as black men. Another 40% may or may not have been black guys but they led with a line like, "Hey baby, I'm gonna breed your pussy and treat you like a whore." No. No, you're not. From what we've experienced here, we wouldn't consider meeting anyone from this site unless we happened to bump into them at a club or party. We know there are some really great guys here...we just can't figure out who the hell they are because all the assholes and fakes drown them out.
 
Yes indeed because I am looking for a white couple for a MFM hookup or a single white woman to hookup with. if they are a cuck couple that is ok as long as he watches only.

Agree 100%. It would be fine if that crap was in the fantasy sections of the site but it is in every forum. At least half the people who contacted us when we joined were either men posing as women or white guys posing as black men. Another 40% may or may not have been black guys but they led with a line like, "Hey baby, I'm gonna breed your pussy and treat you like a whore." No. No, you're not. From what we've experienced here, we wouldn't consider meeting anyone from this site unless we happened to bump into them at a club or party. We know there are some really great guys here...we just can't figure out who the hell they are because all the assholes and fakes drown them out.

Precisely. Even when I use some terminology like 'black-owned', 'bull', etc. that is for me /us very different from the cliches I find in this forum, like 'bulls' getting sucked by the 'cuck'. I think some people have no idea of the IR experience and write bs for the sake of jerking off. I admit the stuff is highly exciting and this is why we all are here. But we are really with a gang, and it is rare, I mean quite rare to find a black man willing to get touched in any way by the male partner of the woman he is going to bang, unless he is bisexual. And the violent demeanor some write about... they never have been the slightest aggressive, perhaps just rude. IR porn has created stereotypes that got beyond what we are able to accept in the open society. IR porn is basically racist and misogynistic for the sake of sex on sale: in this industry, Black men are reduced to animalistic features and women are brainless cumdumpsters. And this is legal... and dangerous.
 
Precisely. Even when I use some terminology like 'black-owned', 'bull', etc. that is for me /us very different from the cliches I find in this forum, like 'bulls' getting sucked by the 'cuck'. I think some people have no idea of the IR experience and write bs for the sake of jerking off. I admit the stuff is highly exciting and this is why we all are here. But we are really with a gang, and it is rare, I mean quite rare to find a black man willing to get touched in any way by the male partner of the woman he is going to bang, unless he is bisexual. And the violent demeanor some write about... they never have been the slightest aggressive, perhaps just rude. IR porn has created stereotypes that got beyond what we are able to accept in the open society. IR porn is basically racist and misogynistic for the sake of sex on sale: in this industry, Black men are reduced to animalistic features and women are brainless cumdumpsters. And this is legal... and dangerous.
It's so true. Even the black male porn stars that have production companies are pissed because some of the actresses will work for Blacked. com who is owned by Greg Lansky a Jewish male but refuse to work for say Lexington Steel's company or Flash Browns company. Some are vocal about it. Like Flash is on Twitter but most of the black male talent is staying silent for fear of getting blacklisted ( no pun intended)
 
So I was on the internet the other day. And lo and behold. Someone spoke their mind about something. Of course that quickly resulted in others misconstruing the actual point made in some badly written analogy.
I must apologise. I think it has to be an antipodean failing not to recognise yhat there are prople on this planet who cannot see the lighter side of anything let alone
So I was on the internet the other day. And lo and behold. Someone spoke their mind about something. Of course that quickly resulted in others misconstruing the actual point made in some badly written analogy.
I must apologise. I think it is an antipodean failing that we keep forgetting that some people in the northern hemisphere cannot see the lighter side of anything let alone laugh at themselves.
 
We were happy to find a site that provides an education into the world of black and white for the purpose of adult fun and sex. As a white married couple in our 50's, we discussed the prospects of venturing into other avenues to enhance our sex life. We have never done this before although it has been a fantasy and we play with black dildo's exclusively. Both of us have friends that are black and we didn't grow up thinking adversely about African American people. We are all God's creation and equals. There are good and bad in all races and we make our decisions on whom we call friends. Neither one of us had dated an African American and we now find it appealing and intriguing from the many things we have heard. We discussed the color contrast, the stamina, the aggressiveness and the size of the African American male. Quite frankly, it makes us pretty horny and wanting to find out more.
With that said, we have read a lot of the posts on here and we are increasingly getting turned off. This site appears to be a forum for people to use for their own negative and combative purposes other than the intended reason of bringing black and white together for mutual enjoyment. It is very sad. All of the racist comments, the push to change the demographics of the world for superiority, the put down of the white male, which are often called "boi", the embarrassment and the humiliation of the husband and the white woman becoming owned or a slave. Have we gone backwards to the caveman era? This is why we can't move forward. It is also disturbing that people are bringing their political views on here. Why? This is a meet and greet sex site. We don't care about your political views.
If this is what this site is going to be used for then we have had enough. We thought it would be a great place to learn about the lifestyle and perhaps find that big black cock that would make our first experience a great introduction into the lifestyle and have many more years of enjoyment. At this rate, we would rather spend our time doing other things.
Sorry but that is how we feel. Sad but true. People need to move forward and stop reliving the past. We are all equals and the world could be such a better place!

Dear @SAMR, and the other members who visit this site and are turned off.

I understand your frustrations and it's unfortunate you have found some very ugly and disturbing things that may have turned you off from this site.

However there is nothing wrong with the site here, but unfortunately there is something wrong with the people in this world who come on the internet and suspend all their manners, common-sense, any basis of reality, and live out their sickest darkest fantasies over the social network.

Whats worse is that social media also gives everyone a megaphone to amplify and bloviate about all types of nonsense and sick thoughts in their heads. I wish it wasn't this way but it's not only on this site as many atrocious things are posted to Facebook too such as cyber bullying that has caused people to commit suicide and even worst are the posted videos of rapes and murders for all to witness in shock and horror as well.

I encourage you to continue on your journey to explore the wonderful and fulfilling experience of sexual encounters with the wonderful blackmen that are out there and don't let this one corner of the internet that has an aggregate of all types of fantasies spewed online here discourage you from fulfilling your wants and desires.

I have met over a dozen wonderful people from this site and I try to remain above the fray with the nonsense on here. Remember people can be and say anything they want online and the problem is it is very difficult for Internet moderators to try to filter it all out. Yes there are people who have been attracted to the site for all of the wrong reasons and many others both black/white males and females such as yourselves and myself who have came to this site for the right reasons too.

As many of the other members have said on here and much like you have to do on your cable TV box at home, avoid going to the threads/channels that annoy you and when you see some real disturbing stuff do report it and we take serious action to address it.

We did create a forum with interviews and other good posts from real couples and members which you may find of value if you haven't pursued it already and I addressed the topic of the Bull and Cuck culture from a anthropological, mythological perspective which shows another viewpoint to consider on that topic.

https://www.blacktowhite.net/forums/btow-interviews-and-articles/

With that said, I do hope you continue to find what you seek which I know you can find albeit if you do not continue to socialize on this site.


Best Regards,
~BBB76
My pennies worth..

BlacktoWhite is indeed a general meeting place for like minded people. That said. It has slowly become a fantasy playground for a certain section of its members. Everyone has to find their place within the site.

It can be fun, It can be a place of some serious discussions without the vitrol that can be found on many a political forum. You just have to choose what you are here for.

Don't like the political side of the forums. Don't go there. The Cuckold section. Again, don't go there. There are some who enjoy the sparring of it. Its all down to what rocks your boat really.

You will find that there are some great members on here. Yes, they are between the cucks who think the sun shines out of a BBC. ( that trick I would pay money to see :confused: ), the' We are white and we want to surrender crowd'. And the yippeeee free tits members :D. Its what you want to take from here that's important. Nothting else really matters.

Some people like the extreme relationships that can be formed in any side of society. But. If you would rather go at a slow pace to start being more involved in the interracial sex scene, then look around. There are memebrs who will be only to happy to discuss the ins and outs of their particular experiance. And offer sound advice. Its not all bad, Its not all good. But is a reflection of a large part of the interracial community.

Sometimes here is like walking through a minefield. But with the right help and advice it can also be a fun place.

Don't give up. Don't be put off. You can make this what ever you want. Try not to let it make the wrong picture about everyone on a few postings or comments that have soured your opinion or idea of how things should be.:rolleyes:

Well my pennies worth... Hope it made sense.:lips:

@DaphneD, I love what you wrote my dear and I couldn't have said it better myself. I wish I could give you two likes for that post. Kisses to you bae. :lips:

So i was at the mall one day and there was a stall set up with a sign saying " free chocolates - take if you want".
I took a box and opened it and ate some chocolates but then i noticed that included in the box were a lot that i didn't like. So, of course, i went back to the stall and complained. I told them that i didnt like some of their chocolates and that they should not have put those in the box and they should clean out all their boxes to ensure that only chocolates that i like are included.
The lady at the stall said to me that many people like the ones that i rejected so it would be unfair to discriminate against those people. Well! Did i give it to her!@##÷@!
I told her in no uncertain terms that i didnt care what other people wanted. The only thing that matters is what i want and if you dont change things to my liking i demand my money back.
"But" she said ... "the chocolates are free. You paid nothing for them."
"What the hell is wrong here?" I said.

@Tanya Williams I love what you wrote too and I dig the analogy you used Hun. Kisses :lips: also

 
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Thank you for the responses so far. We absolutely agree that it is not everyone and we wrote as a generalization. Just gets over bearing and unnecessary.
We are certain there are a lot of great black men that are honest, trustworthy and real. Like us, we are sure there are those that are not prejudice and looking for a great time.
Time will tell.
I guess my first question is...
Why do you click and read the nonsense?
Easily avoided.
Even dumb messages can simply be erased. I get plenty of those lol
 
So i was at the mall one day and there was a stall set up with a sign saying " free chocolates - take if you want".
I took a box and opened it and ate some chocolates but then i noticed that included in the box were a lot that i didn't like. So, of course, i went back to the stall and complained. I told them that i didnt like some of their chocolates and that they should not have put those in the box and they should clean out all their boxes to ensure that only chocolates that i like are included.
The lady at the stall said to me that many people like the ones that i rejected so it would be unfair to discriminate against those people. Well! Did i give it to her!@##÷@!
I told her in no uncertain terms that i didnt care what other people wanted. The only thing that matters is what i want and if you dont change things to my liking i demand my money back.
"But" she said ... "the chocolates are free. You paid nothing for them."
"What the hell is wrong here?" I said.
LMFAO!!
Awesome :)
 
Dear @SAMR, and the other members who visit this site and are turned off.

I understand your frustrations and it's unfortunate you have found some very ugly and disturbing things that may have turned you off from this site.

However there is nothing wrong with the site here,

*skirrrrrch!*
Stop right there Bruh. And while you are very thoughtful and eloquent as always I'ma have to disagree wholeheartedly with THAT assertion.
The very sickness that you speak of is actually PERPETUATED on this site and BY this site. Otherwise, why put categories like 'Interracial Cuckold' and 'Interracial Extreme' etc...?? The makers of this site pretty much INVITE the ridiculous nonsense that I read on this site every day.

While no one can police every single person's experience and fantasies and fetishes, B2W must take some responsibility for fostering an environment for some of the crazier ******* on her to take root, grow, and prosper.


I joined thinking it was a legitimate 'dating site' at the best. What I have found is something different. B2W wants to advertise itself as a BRAND which is implied to mean 'Black Men to White Women' - now, anyone can argue that assumption and of course it is open to interpretation....but like every other seemingly Black-Medium, it is actually ran/powered by White people, and some of the White people here purvey these corridors not unlike people visiting a Zoo.

'Ooooh look at the big Black guy penis!' Harold, I want one!' :D


But I covered that in my OWN separate posting ranking Adult hook up ventures...

B2W DOES have a few bright spots tho and I take it all with a grain of sea salt ;)

-Mike
 
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Neither one of us had dated an African American and we now find it appealing and intriguing from the many things we have heard. We discussed the color contrast, the stamina, the aggressiveness and the size of the African American male. Quite frankly, it makes us pretty horny and wanting to find out more.
!

Sounds like some ******* from that movie 'Get Out' :devil:
 
*skirrrrrch!*
Stop right there Bruh. And while you are very thoughtful and eloquent as always I'ma have to disagree wholeheartedly with THAT assertion.
The very sickness that you speak of is actually PERPETUATED on this site and BY this site. Otherwise, why put categories like 'Interracial Cuckold' and 'Interracial Extreme' etc...?? The makers of this site pretty much INVITE the ridiculous nonsense that I read on this site every day.

While no one can police every single person's experience and fantasies and fetishes, B2W must take some responsibility for fostering an environment for some of the crazier ******* on her to take root, grow, and prosper.

They don't police talks of female abduction, of *******, of sex slaves (or other forms of human trafficking) - people discuss ******* and all sorts of fuckery on here. So nah, B2W as a forum does NOT get off the hook by saying 'Oh its just the internet'.

I joined thinking it was a legitimate 'dating site' at the best. What I have found is something different. B2W wants to advertise itself as a BRAND which is implied to mean 'Black Men to White Women' - now, anyone can argue that assumption and of course it is open to interpretation....but like every other seemingly Black-Medium, it is actually ran/powered by White people, and some of the White people here purvey these corridors not unlike people visiting a Zoo.

'Ooooh look at the big Black guy penis!' Harold, I want one!' :D

But I covered that in my OWN separate posting ranking Adult hook up ventures...

B2W DOES have a few bright spots tho and I take it all with a grain of sea salt ;)

-Mike
Yes, it is the internet. It doesn't matter who runs or what they allow on this site. Individuals show and present who they are. You'll find individuals that are extreme in every site. This site has policies but, they are not censoring you either.
 
Yes, it is the internet. It doesn't matter who runs or what they allow on this site. Individuals show and present who they are. You'll find individuals that are extreme in every site. This site has policies but, they are not censoring you either.
Yes but that doesn't absolve B2W for fostering such an environment. You can say 'its the internet' but - There are websites devoted SOLELY to extreme-ism, so to have a category called 'Extreme alternative interracial sex' (for example) just invites certain kinds of bullshit.
hell, my internet days goes waaaay back to when stile project was popping lol lol - so I've seen all kinds of wild *******, but at the same time, we can't just write it off like B2W isn't culpable for some of the behavior here. But I'm not saying anything I haven't said before.
 
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