What the best way to be Approached as a Couple?

[DeeandShelly]

Absolutely spot on , really love to see a guy chatting up wife , knowing where its going ! being nudists helps it along a bit too ...you come back to hot tub with the drinks and find your seat next to her taken .......

That exact scenario, the nudist resort and the hot tub, resulted in my wife disappearing for a while with another hot tubber, only to reappear from the campground with cum running down her thigh. I loved it!

 

[GaBlackSnake]

I know you’re scared, but trust me you will probably not regret my advice. Just walk up to him and say we’re Jack and Jill. Jill was wondering what you think of her, rate her for me. If given high marks go on and offer her up to him. That I think would be the Ultimate introduction. Brothers help me put, if you agree hit like for me.

 

[WhiteCuckLoser]

Micha and I were talking last week and we could not come to solid and concise decision on what the best way to be a approached in public would be for a single guy. We spoke of several scenarios whether or not I was present. Are we with vanilla people? Are we with family? We both agreed that there have been moments when we wish we could do something in what might not be the most optimal setting, but don't. So the we beg the question what is the right time, place, and way to approach a couple in public. We would also love to hear from single men as to when would be ideal for an husband or wife to approach you as well. Is when your out in a group ok or do you prefer the grocery store pick up? We want to hear from all sides.

We have already complied a few tips in our YouTube video "The Approach" but we would like to hear from everyone and what there thoughts are. Check out the video below to catch some of our tips and see if there are any you can add.

I don't think such approaches should be made at all. You belong to groups of like minded people and make contacts both online and at their social functions.

 

[WhiteCuckLoser]

If a guy wanted to approach us in public that's all good. At first, it's best not to be too direct or lay it on too hard. It does take a bit of talk and then progress to playful suggestion and then see where it goes. The reason for not coming on too strong at first is that the Mrs has to like you. You aren't approaching your future wife or anything so the pressure should be off. You are just making some small talk and letting us know you are interested. In public is welcomed, but read the scenario. If we are just hanging out, that's the best time. If we look busy or like we are trying to get something accomplished then the timing isn't so good unless you are a true master of your art.

The problem is not him approaching you guys. The problem is that you would be the one couple out of 50 or 100 he approaches that might be receptive. Swinger clubs, kink clubs, and online groups are the way to do it without being offensive to the vast majority of those who are approached, most of whom will be totally vanilla.

 

[William]

My wife likes confident men, so flirting with her and good conversation.
She enjoys when black men want to dance with her.
Most of them don't fail to disappoint, they love to grind into her ass.
They leave her wanting more ....

 

[shortnbusty]

Micha and I were talking last week and we could not come to solid and concise decision on what the best way to be a approached in public would be for a single guy. We spoke of several scenarios whether or not I was present. Are we with vanilla people? Are we with family? We both agreed that there have been moments when we wish we could do something in what might not be the most optimal setting, but don't. So the we beg the question what is the right time, place, and way to approach a couple in public. We would also love to hear from single men as to when would be ideal for an husband or wife to approach you as well. Is when your out in a group ok or do you prefer the grocery store pick up? We want to hear from all sides.

We have already complied a few tips in our YouTube video "The Approach" but we would like to hear from everyone and what there thoughts are. Check out the video below to catch some of our tips and see if there are any you can add.

My husband is 6’3, 315 lbs and looks like a Viking so anyone that approaches us would probably automatically pass just for having the balls to try

 

[sexywife2022]

Be respectful to both of us and be friendly, funny and interested. It’s simple really. For me I’d want to be engaged first them if I feel comfortable I’ll introduce you to my wife.

 

[jj3some]

Be respectful to both of us and be friendly, funny and interested. It’s simple really. For me I’d want to be engaged first them if I feel comfortable I’ll introduce you to my wife.

very well said

 

[Happy sussex]

The first time that my wife conceded to going black was at a friends party where the friends uncle slowly seduced my wife , My wife’s friend and family originate from Barbados and are black . The uncle danced with my wife and he was rubbing against her she could feel his penis getting hard as he rubbed into her , he later wanted a lift home his niece asked if we could drop him off on our way home we agreed to .
We chatted on the drive to his house and the chat had started to slightly go sexual.
when we got to his he asked us in for a ******* my wife said that would be nice, we went in he offered me a coffee as I was driving, he made my wife and himself a rum cocktail and then put some music on again the conversation turned sexual with him saying he’d never seen a white woman's pussy other than in films , he asked my wife to dance , she said yes this time he held her tight to him with his hands on her ass pulling her against him . He then leant his head into my wife’s neck muslin into her.
I now had an erection watching them .
they stopped dancing and the bulge in his trousers could not hide his penis . They sat on a settee opposite me , he draped an arm over my wife’s shoulder resting on the top of her arm . The talk turned sexual again gradually going back to him never seeing a white women's pussy or tits , he then said maybe you’ll let your wife show me hers , I replied that my wife had never seen a black cock other than in porn films , so maybe if you show her your cock she might show you her pussy , he now had his hand over my wife’s right tit gently feeling it.
He then stood up undoing his trousers and dropped them and his pants directly in front of my wife, her eyes looked like they were going to pop seeing the size of his black cock at least twice the length and thickness of mine.
He then said now show me your pussy , my wife looked at me I just nodded at her , she lifted her ass up pulling her thong to one side opening her legs flashing her pussy at him .
He said that’s not good I want to see it uncovered I nodded at her she lifted again and pulled her thong down lifted her dress and opened her legs giving both him and I a full on view of her open pussy which was shimmering in her juices. He bent forward took her hand placing it on his black cock , he then put his hand over her pussy slipping two fingers between her labia lips teasing her clit and then slipping a finger in her cunt , she was in a state of sexual bliss eyes closed mouth open moaning rubbing his cock , she then said to him please fuck me now , He moved between her thighs holding them up and wide she still had his cock in her hand guiding it to her cunt , he slowly started pushing his huge cock into her cunt gradually pulling back then each time pushing in he’d go a bit deeper until he was fully buried in her . I had now dropped my trousers and was wanking my now insignificant little white cock .My wife was now continuously cumin I had cum over the floor , after about fifteen minutes he started grunting and ejaculated deep in my wife’s cunt.
He is now my wife’s regular bbc lover .
The second black guy we meet in our local bar ,
We had been in for a meal and a *******, my wife’s meal arrived and was cold so we sent it back, It was replaced we eat our meals and when ready to go I went to the bar to pay a black guy was sat at the bar he asked if we had enjoyed our meal I told him it wasn’t up to it’s normal standard telling him why .
He said he was one of the chiefs and would tell the kitchen guys about it , he offered us a ******* each which we accepted.
He went to the kitchen then came over to the table we were sitting at asked if he could sit with us. No problem he sat next to my wife we were chatting when he said to us I think your into black guy’s my wife started blushing at this. He said I watched you looking at me then I noticed your eyes looking at my crotch.
I explained that we have a black guy that we meet regularly for my wife and I watch them .
He said well he’s a very lucky guy, then said maybe we would like to go to his flat for a *******, My wife said that’s kind of you but you’ve bought us a *******, he said it a be a pleasure to have a ******* at mine.
My wife said ok but either you or us go out the bar first as we are regular in here and don’t want people to know we are going With you to yours. We said goodbye to the staff went out walking along the street for five minutes and waited for Martin. He caught up with us and we walked just behind him following him to his flat.
We went in to his flat he asked us what we wanted to ******* we had a red wine each he put some music on, we sat chatting, he started asking about my wife’s lover and how we met him.
The conversation had now turned totally sexual, he was now asking personal things about Del , how good he-was at sex how big his cock is and how many black guy’s had we met. I was getting hard talking about this my wife was blushing. Then Martin made a move on my wife, asking her straight out if she wanted to see his cock before either of us could answer he got his cock out god it was much bigger than Del’s . He asked my wife if she wanted it she was awestruck looking at it she looked at him and said yes . He took us to the bedroom he started undressing my wife the strip off himself god his cock is huge as is his ball sack. He told my wife to bend over the edge of the bed and open your legs wide , she did he then got behind her rubbing his cock between her cunt lips finding her vagina entrance pushing his cock into her stretching her cunt wider and then took both her tits in his hands and started fucking her .

 

[asianwf4bbc]

I'm not sure if there is a 'right time or place' ... It really depends on the skill level of the guy who approaches the couple!

I've done it plenty of times here in Austin.

Few months ago I started casually chatting up a young couple with a cute girlfriend in the grocery store. Turns out they have seen me around before and I simply ask if they ever want to hang out for drinks
we exchanged info and before you know it they were at my place having fun

it helps to be a natural talker... A 'people person' in general. That way you can gauge the conversation and see look for subtle hints or Clues. Nobody's going to break the social contract and just come right out and say "hey I'm a swinger are you two swingers??"

But there are certain body languages that a skilled guy can read into to tell whether to push or not.

For me, I pay attention to the way a woman is dressed and I pay attention to her eye contact. I always give respect to the man first and address him first and then I include them both in the conversation so all three of us are engaged. Rather than ask a bunch of questions like I'm interviewing or probing, I will share some stories and throw in a few dirty words here and there to see how they react.

In my experience, open couples and swingers well reciprocate the light dirty talk or laugh in agreement.

Once they start sharing their private life and asking more about Me... At that point I know I'm onto something!

How would you suggest a very muscular white husband approach a black man about fucking his petite Asian wife?

My wife is VERY shy, even though I’ve set up meetings with black bulls through Craigslist back when you could, at a muscular 250 lbs, I feel like men are a little wary of being approached in person, especially since my wife, even when she’s interested, is not overtly flirty in public.

Any advice you have would be appreciated

 

[MagicMikeATX]

How would you suggest a very muscular white husband approach a black man about fucking his petite Asian wife?

My wife is VERY shy, even though I’ve set up meetings with black bulls through Craigslist back when you could, at a muscular 250 lbs, I feel like men are a little wary of being approached in person, especially since my wife, even when she’s interested, is not overtly flirty in public.

Any advice you have would be appreciated

Sure. So a Real EXPERIENCED Black Bull (such as myself) will have no problem with this scenario. The average guy, he'll even guys in this lifestyle are not used to being approached in public. It really helps to Simply contact an experienced Bull and set up the scenario ahead of time!
I've had husbands larger than me (I'm 6'4 and 215lbs) Grant me full access to their women while they watched.

Austin has a lot of fitness couples so it's pretty common to meet up with very fit muscular guys.

All of that being, said just vet a guy who has proven experience... either by referrals from other women or checking out his history online

 

[asianwf4bbc]

Sure. So a Real EXPERIENCED Black Bull (such as myself) will have no problem with this scenario. The average guy, he'll even guys in this lifestyle are not used to being approached in public. It really helps to Simply contact an experienced Bull and set up the scenario ahead of time!
I've had husbands larger than me (I'm 6'4 and 215lbs) Grant me full access to their women while they watched.

Austin has a lot of fitness couples so it's pretty common to meet up with very fit muscular guys.

All of that being, said just vet a guy who has proven experience... either by referrals from other women or checking out his history online

 

[asianwf4bbc]

Thanks so much for the no bs reply, it’s greatly appreciated.

And it does help.

if we’re in Austin, which is a possibility in the near future, we’ll verify and contact you to see if there’s chemistry that works for you and my wife.

Either way, thanks