what is wrong with me?

Discussion in 'Cuckold Forum' started by Alanm, Oct 21, 2012.

  1. Alanm

    Alanm Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I literally cannot stop thinking about my wife getting pounded while i am made to sit in another room and listen to her screams. Then being made to clean them both for round two. Is something wrong with me. I never would have thought this way 10 years ago now its all i think about.
     
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  2. MemphisMWM

    MemphisMWM Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I'm the same way. The only thing I jerk to anymore is cuckold IR porn,.

    Some of us just have that cuckold mentality. And nothing is wrong with wanting your wife to be pleased. Very unselfish really.
     
  3. Alanm

    Alanm Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I want her to be pleased, she is becoming increasingly less interested in my little dick. Big surprise but i want her to get the sexual passion she used to have back and if that means her taking on a hung bull i am all for it.
     
  4. MemphisMWM

    MemphisMWM Member Real Person Gold Member

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    That could mean she is already spreading her legs for another man with a bigger cock.
     
  5. Alanm

    Alanm Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    You think so, god i hope its a bbc! I have been telling her for years she is free to fuck whoever she wants.
     
  6. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    Alanm, as long as BOTH of you are enjoying what's going on, I say go for it and enjoy it together. My main concern is when there is no reciprocation of enjoyment. When either party in a marriage loses interest in the other, there's a major concern to the longevity of the relationship ... simply NOT worth it, then. She should be as concerned, as you, in you getting what you want out of this kind of activity ... if not, I'd stop it.
     
  7. Alanm

    Alanm Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Yeah, i think my main concern is she won't truely say what she wants or how she feels. She will say lilttle things that make me think she would enjoy this lifestyle but when i press her or tell her what i like she clams up. I am not sure where that leaves us. I know she is growing increaslingly less interested in my cock and sex and when we do have sex she likes to cum on her toy, a bbc dildo.just not sure what to do now.
     
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  8. eyespy07

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    Intriguing. Please, share more of your thoughts.
     
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  9. Alanm

    Alanm Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    What would you like to know. I just really want her to get the good fucking she deserves, she has never had another cock other than mine and i have a feeling she is wanting more but is afraid to hurt my feelings. She loves to have big dildos in her cunt and loves feeling stretched, something my cock doesn't provide. I know she finds black men attractive.
     
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  10. eyespy07

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    Looks like we are in a similar situation. My gf has only had my cock inside her; I have even offered to buy her a dildo to use--she only wants the real thing. For some time now, I have had the idea of having her try a BBC (with my permission and close supervision, of course). I have mentioned to her a few times and each time she doesn't really find that idea all that attractive. It's an uphill battle because I'm working against some of the ingrained societal prejudices she has against black people( that they are scary, violent, and will rob you given a chance). However, she has found some black men attractive especially ones that are not that dark (ex. Will Smith's complexion). Also, she was VERY interested in seeing that Kim Kardashian movie with her ex bf Ray J. When pressed, she said she wanted to see how big Kim K's pussy really was. Hmm, I think there is more to it than that as you can CLEARLY see how long Ray J's cock was. Yet, she keeps that to herself maybe to avoid having a guilty complex. That part I am not sure about. So, Alanm, it looks like we have the same conundrum just with a few twists. What do you think?
     
  11. Alanm

    Alanm Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Ng
    Sounds exactly the same. I have asked the wife on a few occasions how i would like to see her with this hung black former coworker and she says she would love it but when i once tried to set something up with a black guy she got all scared and backed out.
     
  12. eyespy07

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    Ahhh, at least you got that far. It's the guilt complex. Women are typically a jumble of emotions and some have a better control over them that others. I think she is afraid that people may find out about her taboo experience or that you might not love her anymore or that she might like BBC too much. I know you have to reinforce the fact that NO MATTER what happens, that you will always love her and that first and foremost YOU are her husband and no lover will ever replace you and your significance in the relationship. The way I see it, it would be as if these black lovers are "borrowing" her for a time and giving her an additional pleasure she really craves. The only thing about this is that you need to clarify what YOU and YOUR WIFE have is a LOVING RELATIONSHIP. And that what she may have with her black lovers is just SEX. I think that's the toughest hurdle to overcome.
     
  13. Alanm

    Alanm Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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