Sally B
Female
so true. different strokes. there really isn't any one way. i so agree. i know it's hot for some guys to fantasize about being worthless but no one wants a truly wortthless mate.There is no "one size fits all" formula to cuckolding.
Each woman will have different needs and desires as will the different husbands and the "bulls". What makes it work really great is when they are all on the same page, their desires and personalities compliment each others and all are getting their various desires met. Otherwise it may still be an enjoyable experience, but it won't become a regular thing.
Yes, under the right circumstance you could be a bull even though you only have 5.5". These opportunities would be few and far in between, but it is possible. My own Wife would prefer a lover to have a cock a bit smaller than my own as she is uncomfortable with my girth. This is not because I am hung huge, I'm only 7" x 5.5", but contrary to popular belief, not all women have cunts that can stretch to take all sizes of cock comfortably. Being stretched out just to accommodate a large dick isn't her idea of a good time. Again, different strokes for different folks.
Not all cuckolds are incapable of pleasing their wives. Don't believe all this worthless, tiny dicked cuckold BS that is prevalent. While it is true that some do enjoy the fantasy of being a submissive, humiliated wimp for a cruel domineering wife and her sneering, swaggering bull, there are probably more who enjoy a loving supportive relationship with their spouses. Not many marriages would last very long if the wife truly believed her husband to be worthless, she'd be gone with the lover.
For many couples it is simply expanding the pleasures that they enjoy similar to "swinging", but where the husband has no real desire to be with another woman.
Many men find the idea of treating the love of their life to two or more pairs of hands to caress her, two or more tongues to tease her, two or more mouths to suck and nibble and two or more cocks to fill her and stoke her passions to an ecstatic crescendo of orgasmic joy to be a very pleasurable experience for themselves.
This assuming they partake in the experience as well, however, many are equally happy to simply see their wife enjoy the pleasures that being with a different lover can offer. Just because one loves steak, doesn't mean they couldn't appreciate an occasional lobster or other dish. So while lust may be part of it, having fun is probably a bigger part for most.
Sorry if I've caused even more confusion for you, but now you know you have many options. It's just a question of finding what works best for you and your wife.
i thinkk it's common for guys to confuse submisssion with inferiority but trust me, we (women) don't equate the two. ironically, it takes a confident man to be a great submissive imo. i love to be dominant in bed but my submissive lover is far from a wimp. we "play" with inferiority, but it's not why he submits. we play size games but it's not why he submits.
i have guys here ask me in private conversation how to find someone like me and then in the same conversation talk about how wimpy they are. guys!!!! girls likke me don't want a wimp.
we luv submission. 
two very different things. learn the difference and u'l find the woman u'r seeking or more likely, she'll find u.think about it for just a second!!! there's nothing exciting about having a wimp submit. we can't love a wimp either. but having a strong confident man submit to our every whim? tthat's like instant orgasm
and it gets better from there!!! 
but it's okay. i bet it works jsut fine for peeing. just leave the sex to the big boys
