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Do you try and keep the peace and not tell them or hide your lifestyle the best that you can?Are do you be totally honest!And risk losing a good friend or family member forever?
Only family that knows about it are a couple of my sisters. They are cheating with BBC so I'm not worried about hem telling anyone.
Black people are "immigrants" now?I haven't told it to any of my family members. Neither my mom. If my dad notices, he will definitely be mad. He hates all immigrants and especially the black ones.
For quite a few years, no-one in my family knew about my black relationship ...... I had to tell my parents and that's when I exposed about the relationship I was having with a black man...
Both parents were furious at me, calling me many different names I've never heard from them, especially my Dad.. Unfortunately, after all these years, they still feel the same way about it. In fact, that day was the last time I was ever in my parents home and I'm not ever welcome again until I change my ways about black ....
Now, I just feel sorry for them that they can't get over their racism ...
Isn't it odd that the bigoted are too blind to see that nothing about you ever changed: you are still the same person that they loved before and even during the time that they didn't know who you enjoyed sex with. The only thing that changed were their feelings for you when they found that you were above their petty unwarranted hate.
The only losers here are they for denying themselves the beauty of having you in their lives.
The question is Why hide it unless they are supporting you in everyway , Dad is not the one taking BBC. you are live your life to make yourself happy first then worry about them ......I haven't told it to any of my family members. Neither my mom. If my dad notices, he will definitely be mad. He hates all immigrants and especially the black ones.
The question is Why hide it unless they are supporting you in everyway , Dad is not the one taking BBC. you are live your life to make yourself happy first then worry about them ......
Monkeys , This is 2012 and we no longer choose to accept words of this nature , ever heard of people being equals , tell Dad that kinda talk left years ago... Do you live your life to please you or your Dad???? its time to put your foot down if you ever want to stand up to him.... if we are Monkeys then ask him what he is????You sound like you dont know racists. My dad would never accept the fact that a black makes me happy. He hates blacks like most of men here. He would rather die or stop communicating with me rather than having "monkeys" for grandsons.
Wake up its 2012 , we are not immigrants ... We were born here as americans not immigrants , maybe 200 years ago but not anymore its a new world people so whatever you do stop living so much in the past.......In my country they are all immigrants from africa. It is not like in north eu countries or usa. There are not any black greeks. Mostof them come here to work or study and then return to their countries.
Do you try and keep the peace and not tell them or hide your lifestyle the best that you can?Are do you be totally honest!And risk losing a good friend or family member forever?
Wake up its 2012 , we are not immigrants ... We were born here as americans not immigrants , maybe 200 years ago but not anymore its a new world people so whatever you do stop living so much in the past.......
Do you try and keep the peace and not tell them or hide your lifestyle the best that you can?Are do you be totally honest!And risk losing a good friend or family member forever?
Guess there behind in time....Katerina lives in Greece, not the U.S., in her country blacks are, for the most part, immigrants.
You sound like you dont know racists. My dad would never accept the fact that a black makes me happy. He hates blacks like most of men here. He would rather die or stop communicating with me rather than having "monkeys" for grandsons.