What do women into cuckolding actually enjoy about it

[Apostle]

Some women in cuckolding relationships do report an increase in self-confidence, though it depends very much on personality, context, and the nature of the relationship. Here are some of the positive aspects that women sometimes describe:

1. Self-confidence and empowerment
• Being desired by multiple men can reinforce a woman’s sense of attractiveness and sexual power.
• Knowing that her partner accepts, supports, and even celebrates her choices can make her feel freer and more secure.

2. Variety and exploration
• Cuckolding allows some women to explore different types of partners, experiences, and dynamics without hiding or cheating.
• The ability to explore fantasies openly can feel liberating.

3. Emotional intensity
• The contrast between her husband/partner and a bull can heighten passion.
• For some, the taboo or “forbidden” quality of the act adds to the excitement.

4. Strengthened bond with her partner
• Some couples find that openly practicing cuckolding deepens trust, since it requires radical honesty and communication.
• It can reinforce intimacy: she knows her partner truly accepts her, desires her, and shares in her pleasure.

5. A shift in power dynamics
• For women with dominant or confident personalities, cuckolding can affirm their leadership role in the relationship.
• Even for women who aren’t naturally dominant, it can feel affirming to be the “prized” center of attention.

That said, the experience is very individual. Some women love the empowerment, while others may not enjoy it at all. It tends to work best when it fits both partners’ desires, boundaries, and emotional needs.

 

[IstrokeC100]

I know it has changed my husband to a more loving and caring person, he desires even worships me like never before, he wasn’t ignoring me and we did try for years to make a family, but now he is happy for me to have so much pleasure, and wants to watch me have orgasm’s with our Bulls, in the hope that I get pregnant soon.
I’m sure I could get him to ask other guys into bed, for more 3somes, like he did with our white bull Gus, who makes him do all sort of things in work. He wasn’t sure about shaving his cock, balls, legs and underarm, but now he does it everyday, and is so lovely to cuddle into at night, sometimes we both wear stockings because of this feeling.
Paul is also great to our bulls, he will kneel alongside me to suck, lick and swallow, and do the same on his own when told, I know we will be together for life, I really do love him so much for this lifestyle.

A lovely attitude and such a good lifestyle .Paul seems to have found his proper role.

 

[bicpnuk]

A lovely attitude and such a good lifestyle .Paul seems to have found his proper role.

I thought all cuckolds would do the same as me, and serveall bulls.

 

[NYNJcuckcouple]

No verified women responding

I just sent this question to my Lady ... Let's see a real Female answer.

 

[Barbara2025]

Hey, I’m curious to hear from women who are into cuckolding. I get the surface-level part (you get to sleep with people you’re attracted to), but I’m wondering what the emotional side of it feels like for you.

Like — what aspects turn you on the most? Is it about the power dynamic, the attention, the feeling of being desired, the reaction from your partner, or something else completely?

Would love to hear your perspectives.

It seems ti make my husband happy and he gets to join in sometime

 

[NYNJcuckcouple]

It seems ti make my husband happy and he gets to join in sometime

How did that answer the question posted ? Jesus Christ/. I f--kin give up THE ENTIRE ONLINE SEX WORLD IS MALE DRIVEN .

 

[Barbara2025]

How did that answer the question posted ? Jesus Christ/. I f--kin give up THE ENTIRE ONLINE SEX WORLD IS MALE DRIVEN .

I love it because I get fucked alot

 

[MsScarlett42]

I enjoy the control I have over my cuck!! It's a power rush for me. My cuck is a strong male outside of our sexual lifestyle, so having him submit to me and my bull excites me more than I ever thought possible.

 

[Barbara2025]

I enjoy the control I have over my cuck!! It's a power rush for me. My cuck is a strong male outside of our sexual lifestyle, so having him submit to me and my bull excites me more than I ever thought possible.

I could see that

 

[IstrokeC100]

I thought all cuckolds would do the same as me, and serveall bulls.

They should . And I think things are going that way. It needs the bulls to expect service too.

 

[NYNJcuckcouple]

I enjoy the control I have over my cuck!! It's a power rush for me. My cuck is a strong male outside of our sexual lifestyle, so having him submit to me and my bull excites me more than I ever thought possible.

OMG ! Is that an ACTUAL VERIFIED FEMALE that answered ! ?

 

[Happy sussex]

For myself it’s the total sexual satisfaction that makes it explosive. Knowing that I have extra marital sex which both my husband and I have openly agreed too . From my first time being fucked by our black bull’s much larger penis. Experiencing my first ever vaginal orgasm and multiple orgasms. Even though I was nervous to start with as I had never seen or been fucked by such a large penis. After my initial nerves faded as he slowly eased his penis into my tight vagina as he told me I felt like a virgin due to the tightness of my vagina.
Since then my vagina has loosened as I enjoy and accept his penis . I have become his sexual whore to give him the sexual satisfaction that he also requires.
Then the humiliation side of it both verbal and physical that my husband enjoys. Being told his little white cock is only fit for him to wank as he watches our bulls much larger cock fucking me . On occasions our bull will tell my husband to guide his cock into your whore wife’s cunt cuck boy .

 

[NYNJcuckcouple]

Renee was right .. There is like what ---Two verified females answering .

 

[WillGrt70]

IMO, there probably hasn't been any real verified females to post in this thread yet.

 

[IstrokeC100]

For myself it’s the total sexual satisfaction that makes it explosive. Knowing that I have extra marital sex which both my husband and I have openly agreed too .
Then the humiliation side of it both verbal and physical that my husband enjoys. Being told his little white cock is only fit for him to wank as he watches our bulls much larger cock fucking me .

As ever , you hit the nail on the head HS! The only thing which puzzles me is why every wife isn’t following your excellent example! But for sure more and more are , but we are all still so discreet that it’s not widely recognised how common this now is in the UK.

 

[Rumblebee]

No verified women responding

The best part is when coupleaccounts throw that bi-sissystuff in. All of a sudden the female writes ?
The female is just not even existent.

Do these cringy males never feel stupid writing about themselves in 3rd person ?
Gotta be some bad mental bnwo-fetish-issue of the worst kind. Then you see their old postings where a white male looks for other (white) males to " talk about the wife" or they been in gay relships.
No judging them for being gay just not interested in seeing this stuff on here. Its even in the rules as you pointed it out several times

 

[JJSMITHY54321]

Hey, I’m curious to hear from women who are into cuckolding. I get the surface-level part (you get to sleep with people you’re attracted to), but I’m wondering what the emotional side of it feels like for you.

Like — what aspects turn you on the most? Is it about the power dynamic, the attention, the feeling of being desired, the reaction from your partner, or something else completely?

Would love to hear your perspectives.

Occam's Razor: It's about the sex! Bored middle-class white couple looking to spice up a boring middle-class white sex life.

 

[Miami Crystal]

Some women in cuckolding relationships do report an increase in self-confidence, though it depends very much on personality, context, and the nature of the relationship. Here are some of the positive aspects that women sometimes describe:

1. Self-confidence and empowerment
• Being desired by multiple men can reinforce a woman’s sense of attractiveness and sexual power.
• Knowing that her partner accepts, supports, and even celebrates her choices can make her feel freer and more secure.

2. Variety and exploration
• Cuckolding allows some women to explore different types of partners, experiences, and dynamics without hiding or cheating.
• The ability to explore fantasies openly can feel liberating.

3. Emotional intensity
• The contrast between her husband/partner and a bull can heighten passion.
• For some, the taboo or “forbidden” quality of the act adds to the excitement.

4. Strengthened bond with her partner
• Some couples find that openly practicing cuckolding deepens trust, since it requires radical honesty and communication.
• It can reinforce intimacy: she knows her partner truly accepts her, desires her, and shares in her pleasure.

5. A shift in power dynamics
• For women with dominant or confident personalities, cuckolding can affirm their leadership role in the relationship.
• Even for women who aren’t naturally dominant, it can feel affirming to be the “prized” center of attention.

That said, the experience is very individual. Some women love the empowerment, while others may not enjoy it at all. It tends to work best when it fits both partners’ desires, boundaries, and emotional needs.

Exactly, i could not have described it better. Growing up I had no non-traditional role models but I knew what i didn’t want and moved to a big city where I met my husband at work.

My husband was made an unknowing cuck, a very real cuck if you will, with his wife cheating on him for 4 years before he found out.

I met him already broken and trained as a submissive cuck. He had been living in the in the guest room of his own house for 2 years as his wife's demanded. She had a series of live in lovers while he continued to pay for her graduate school. That endeared him to me.

That unconditional support while
leading a ethical nonmonogamus relationship with men was a lightbulb moment for me.

I envied her deliberate open adventurous Lifestyle and professional acomplishments. When she divorced him for a hung lawyer we instantly matched up.

I learned from watching his first wife throw that all away not to confuse the steady support and partnership in life with a husband for the erotic flirty fun with a Lover unencumbered by living a life together day after day.

Monogamy was NOT in our marriage vows.

 

[dinoo45]

Some women in cuckolding relationships do report an increase in self-confidence, though it depends very much on personality, context, and the nature of the relationship. Here are some of the positive aspects that women sometimes describe:

1. Self-confidence and empowerment
• Being desired by multiple men can reinforce a woman’s sense of attractiveness and sexual power.
• Knowing that her partner accepts, supports, and even celebrates her choices can make her feel freer and more secure.

100% RIGHT, MY EXPERIENCE

2. Variety and exploration
• Cuckolding allows some women to explore different types of partners, experiences, and dynamics without hiding or cheating.
• The ability to explore fantasies openly can feel liberating.

100% RIGHT, MY EXPERIENCE

3. Emotional intensity
• The contrast between her husband/partner and a bull can heighten passion.
• For some, the taboo or “forbidden” quality of the act adds to the excitement.

100% RIGHT, MY EXPERIENCE

4. Strengthened bond with her partner
• Some couples find that openly practicing cuckolding deepens trust, since it requires radical honesty and communication.
• It can reinforce intimacy: she knows her partner truly accepts her, desires her, and shares in her pleasure.

100% RIGHT, MY EXPERIENCE

5. A shift in power dynamics
• For women with dominant or confident personalities, cuckolding can affirm their leadership role in the relationship.
• Even for women who aren’t naturally dominant, it can feel affirming to be the “prized” center of attention.

100% RIGHT, MY EXPERIENCE

It tends to work best when it fits both partners’ desires, boundaries, and emotional needs.

100% RIGHT, MY EXPERIENCE

I recognize all especially the emotional needs for partners. We both had.

 

[Molly1980]

Feeling vulnerable. Seeing my husband tied and f0rced to watch is arousing because it is ultimate in domination. Not only an i going to be dominated, but my protector is helpless and f0rced to watch with raises vulnerability