Actually, your profile page and personal details vs your posts are somewhat confusing. In your profile & personal details represent you as the WIFE, who's constantly thinking of black cocks ... then here, you're talking & representing yourself as the HUSBAND wanting to get your wife interested in getting black cock.
So, I guess the first matter of business, before any dialogue can begin, is to decide which part of this relationship are YOU going to represent? It's almost like corresponding with a chameleon or shape shifter.
Then, update the forum as to your overall experiences and relationship.