Yes it is amazing how our wives' opinion changes when they are presented with a different much bigger cock !
What are some mistakes you made as a cuckold?
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We met a younger very well endowed black man at a swinger party. He was at several of the parties hooking up with my wife almost every time. One night on the way home, she said he asked to come to his house. He said that since they were both teachers, they had the summer off and she could come over and "relax" while I was at work. She told me it would be just to relax with him. No sex was to be involved. She said she had agreed to go as long as I said it was ok. I agreed but I really did not believe the no sex routine.
She was still not home when I got home. About an hour and a half later she showed up.She stopped at my home office and said a quick hi. She said she wanted to change out of the sun dress she was wearing and headed straight back to our bedroom. It was obvious from the swinging of he pendulous breasts that she did not have a bra on. I followed her back to our bedroom and got there just as she pulled the dress off showing that she had nothing on underneath it. She said he told her he was keeping her panties and bra so there would be no doubt about what happened. Her pubic hair was matted with dried semen and her pussy was red and puffy. I told her that sex was not part of the deal and wanted to know what happened. She laughed and said that if I wanted to know I had to lick her pussy clean.
She straddled my face on our bed and told me all of the details. He fixed her a ******* and put some music on. After they talked a while, he asked her to dance. As they danced to several numbers, he began to caress her body. she said she could feel his huge erection pressing against her. He asked her if she would like another *******. When he returned with the drinks, he said down beside her on the couch. As they talked, he began caressing her body and massaging her neck. To quote massage better, he asked her to loosen her bra. soon he was massaging more than her neck. He suggested that they would be more comfortable on his bed and he could massage her better. She gave him a blow job and swallowed a huge load. She said she thought that would satisfy him and she could leave with nothing more happening. She was shocked that he was still fully erect. She said that that they had sex the rest of the afternoon and he came in her three more times. From the amount of semen that kept flowing from her, I knew that was true. She was so loose for the next few days, she said she couldn't feel me when we had sex.
I knew in the beginning that if I said yes she would end up having sex with him. I knew it was a mistake. We went from being swingers to a cuckold relationship. Now at least once a week, I clean her pussy while she tells me all about her date with her black lover. Agreeing in the first place was a real mistake.
She was still not home when I got home. About an hour and a half later she showed up.She stopped at my home office and said a quick hi. She said she wanted to change out of the sun dress she was wearing and headed straight back to our bedroom. It was obvious from the swinging of he pendulous breasts that she did not have a bra on. I followed her back to our bedroom and got there just as she pulled the dress off showing that she had nothing on underneath it. She said he told her he was keeping her panties and bra so there would be no doubt about what happened. Her pubic hair was matted with dried semen and her pussy was red and puffy. I told her that sex was not part of the deal and wanted to know what happened. She laughed and said that if I wanted to know I had to lick her pussy clean.
She straddled my face on our bed and told me all of the details. He fixed her a ******* and put some music on. After they talked a while, he asked her to dance. As they danced to several numbers, he began to caress her body. she said she could feel his huge erection pressing against her. He asked her if she would like another *******. When he returned with the drinks, he said down beside her on the couch. As they talked, he began caressing her body and massaging her neck. To quote massage better, he asked her to loosen her bra. soon he was massaging more than her neck. He suggested that they would be more comfortable on his bed and he could massage her better. She gave him a blow job and swallowed a huge load. She said she thought that would satisfy him and she could leave with nothing more happening. She was shocked that he was still fully erect. She said that that they had sex the rest of the afternoon and he came in her three more times. From the amount of semen that kept flowing from her, I knew that was true. She was so loose for the next few days, she said she couldn't feel me when we had sex.
I knew in the beginning that if I said yes she would end up having sex with him. I knew it was a mistake. We went from being swingers to a cuckold relationship. Now at least once a week, I clean her pussy while she tells me all about her date with her black lover. Agreeing in the first place was a real mistake.
Cuckolding, and even swinging, are going to produce a few bumps in the marriage ... its almost unavoidable. Its how you and your spouse handle those bumps that is important. If the couple already have issues in the marriage (lack of sex, in-laws, stepchildren, old lovers, etc), then getting into this activity is only going to feed the problems. A couple should do this to enhance their own private love life and relationship OR not do it at all. Set the rules & parameters, then treat it like a business partnership which relies on both parties to succeed.
Glad to be reminded of this thread by one of those "Alerts".
It's all very well to regret, but life is a learning experience, and most of the time we don't know what we are doing. I only just worked out something about myself a few hours ago.
I discovered that I am not really a cuckold. Or at least, that doesn't begin to describe what I am. I think I am an "enabler", or something. I am reminded of the soft porn movie, "Emmanuelle" where a guy describes himself as an "Arranger of Situations".
So I just had an utterly fantastic experience at this bar. It started when a guy, under a bit of heat from me on an unrelated topic, retaliated by trying to humiliate me in front of an extremely hot woman. He used what scant knowledge he had of my marriage to try to belittle me as a cuckold. I wasn't humiliated, because I am not ashamed of what I am - but I nevertheless floundered trying to explain myself. I thought I was doing a really bad job, but this was not the case - the woman there really latched on to what I was about. I love it when cock-blockers fail!
So, long story short - some more drinks, and she let slip some of her deepest desires. Now I am organizing for a guy of her dreams (an odd choice as it turns out) to fuck her. I cannot describe how much pleasure this gives me. This young woman is 21 yo and probably the hottest piece of ass in an organization of 15,000 people. Do I want to fuck her myself? Well, yes - but I have had hundreds of women - pussies of all shapes and sizes. It's her mind that I want. So now I am the intermediary for her to get fucked by the most unlikely of guys.
No regrets. We keep learning.
It's all very well to regret, but life is a learning experience, and most of the time we don't know what we are doing. I only just worked out something about myself a few hours ago.
I discovered that I am not really a cuckold. Or at least, that doesn't begin to describe what I am. I think I am an "enabler", or something. I am reminded of the soft porn movie, "Emmanuelle" where a guy describes himself as an "Arranger of Situations".
So I just had an utterly fantastic experience at this bar. It started when a guy, under a bit of heat from me on an unrelated topic, retaliated by trying to humiliate me in front of an extremely hot woman. He used what scant knowledge he had of my marriage to try to belittle me as a cuckold. I wasn't humiliated, because I am not ashamed of what I am - but I nevertheless floundered trying to explain myself. I thought I was doing a really bad job, but this was not the case - the woman there really latched on to what I was about. I love it when cock-blockers fail!
So, long story short - some more drinks, and she let slip some of her deepest desires. Now I am organizing for a guy of her dreams (an odd choice as it turns out) to fuck her. I cannot describe how much pleasure this gives me. This young woman is 21 yo and probably the hottest piece of ass in an organization of 15,000 people. Do I want to fuck her myself? Well, yes - but I have had hundreds of women - pussies of all shapes and sizes. It's her mind that I want. So now I am the intermediary for her to get fucked by the most unlikely of guys.
No regrets. We keep learning.
Some good information shared here.
For us it's treading the path and exploring more things - it's inevitably hard to know what will work and what won't because it's new turns of events.
Whilst the wife always enjoyed mfm etc before we met it was many years down the line before we ventured to swing bars etc. At first she was nervous of my reaction - understandable - but as soon as we started it became obvious it was only black guys she was interested in. Part of me wishes she'd been more open about that from the start.
Anyway since then she has regularly taken up with 2 Bbc bulls and where we can sometimes stray off the path is when she goes out with them but fails to message for hours on end. Perhaps I'm too controlling as well, it's going to be stupid for her to break off from great sex just to message me etc but it remains a bone of contention.
As for sex acts unique to her and bull yes this creates friction. She kisses them regularly but we never do. And tried rimmimg with her fav bull whilst we never have.
Overall the hardest part is that she is reluctant to cuck me verbally when just two of us - it's as if for her that time with bull is private and not for sharing with me as a turn on. She is not a verbal person at best of times so I see why it's tricky for her but it is the one remaining gap in the play side.
Overall many great experiences I could share, key is constantly agreeing and reassessing boundaries whilst retaining the fun element.
For us it's treading the path and exploring more things - it's inevitably hard to know what will work and what won't because it's new turns of events.
Whilst the wife always enjoyed mfm etc before we met it was many years down the line before we ventured to swing bars etc. At first she was nervous of my reaction - understandable - but as soon as we started it became obvious it was only black guys she was interested in. Part of me wishes she'd been more open about that from the start.
Anyway since then she has regularly taken up with 2 Bbc bulls and where we can sometimes stray off the path is when she goes out with them but fails to message for hours on end. Perhaps I'm too controlling as well, it's going to be stupid for her to break off from great sex just to message me etc but it remains a bone of contention.
As for sex acts unique to her and bull yes this creates friction. She kisses them regularly but we never do. And tried rimmimg with her fav bull whilst we never have.
Overall the hardest part is that she is reluctant to cuck me verbally when just two of us - it's as if for her that time with bull is private and not for sharing with me as a turn on. She is not a verbal person at best of times so I see why it's tricky for her but it is the one remaining gap in the play side.
Overall many great experiences I could share, key is constantly agreeing and reassessing boundaries whilst retaining the fun element.
Husband made the mistake of allowing my fanticy to become reality. When it did he was a bit taken back...
He is back track now.
He is back track now.
If you feel stronger about these other guys than for your husband it's time to get out of your marriage or to cut it off with these other guys to repair your marriage
My relationship with our neighbors, my lovers, has become more like a polyamorous type of relationship. I feel that my husband and I are closer now than we ever have been. We talk a lot more. I enjoy being with my husband and sharing my day with him when he gets home.
Early on, when all this began, the emotions were intense. The sex is still very intense, but it means so much more to me now.
Is it a mistake to have your wife meet with BBC with me being there?
love hear your story, i have had similar feeling, about when wife didnt evrbally cuckold me enuf, she did rim bull yet she never even hinted about touching or even eating my anus...and so on......
No, if that is what you are comfortable with it is not a mistake
Did it work out badly for you and for him when you two had a cuckolding situation with a black man?
There hasn't been any mistakes at all. The lifestyle has been everything we have wanted and more. We've been lucky in terms of picking our bulls and them respecting us enough to help us live our fantasies and wants.
No real mistakes but there are things we would do different and looking back it is easier to understand. Men becomes cuckolds because women want them to be and often the woman makes the man think it was his idea because it is easier on his ego. When a woman cuckolds you there is nothing you can do about it and she has all the control so just enjoy being submissive. Everyone has a boss except some women
You are not a good candidate for a security clearance.
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What about eating their ass...
Well said
I enjoy watching my wife with other women, unfortunately, she's not that "into it". We've found that FFMs are somewhat hard to arrange because half or more of the women in our FFMs were interested in a sexual relationship with her, not me. Plus, sometimes my wife would do the one-on-one with another female when she wasn't all that into it simply to make the FFM with me work. We did have an awesome FFM relationship years ago with a young college girl we got to know at a local Outback Rest. Our ******* were 2 & 4 at the time and after my wife showed her pics of them, she volunteered to babysit for us whenever we wanted her. We had her over for dinner & cookouts, both of our ******* loved her, and our relationship just went from there ... she was a beautiful redhead to boot, and my wife was into her as much as I was.
That is so dam hot. You are a lucky man.
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