we started cuckolding, stopped and now...

Discussion in 'Interracial Cuckold & Sex Stories' started by Wacuk81, Apr 12, 2016.

  1. Wacuk81

    Wacuk81 New Member

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    Me and my wife stared cuckold play and did it for awhile. Admittedly due to my own jealousy issues developing I called it quits. After discussing it honestly with her she agreed. I don't have a small penis, but we still use much bigger dildos and dirty talk on occasion to recreate some of the fun we had. Since we stopped though the idea of her "cheating" and doing it behind my back has become a huge turn on for me. She tried doing it behind my back while we were in the lifestyle and didn't like how it made her feel, so I know she would never do it behind my back now that we've stopped. I'm having a hard time understanding why this is something I want her to do and why it turns me on so much when I'm the one that originally called it quits....thoughts? Thanks
     
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  2. bostonbean

    bostonbean Moderator Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Sperm compition, you knowing your female has the chance to reproduce, makes you want to in an animalistic wat reclaim your woman.
    It nature man.
     
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  3. Jen2016

    Jen2016 Active Member

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    Because they are just a fantasy. You took a fantasy and implemented it into your real world and the two do not agree.

    Continue the role play and introduce the cheating fantasy. Be Mandingo the plumber.
     
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  4. Jen2016

    Jen2016 Active Member

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    Well he said he is not into it. You assume it is an ego thing. He said it was jealousy. So if he is not into it why force him?

    Well if she decides to pursue black men knowing his feelings, she is wrong. Get a divorce and go spread your legs for anyone you want.
     
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  5. Jen2016

    Jen2016 Active Member

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    No...he does not desire it...it is a fantasy like being cuckold.and it is a fantasy that he did not like when it occured.

    My comment about her was related to your comment where she should aggressively pursue a Blackman.
     
  6. Wacuk81

    Wacuk81 New Member

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    I think your right about the ego thing BethLuvsBBConly, I do want to continue and it gets in my way. I would like it if she she pursued BBC more aggressively. I just don't know that she gets into it as much as I do
     
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  7. dilligaf696989

    dilligaf696989 Member

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    Just maybe her desires have changed. Time to talk and find our why she quit or lost interest in it.
     
  8. Wacuk81

    Wacuk81 New Member

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    Yes Beth I really think she would love that
     
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  9. ncbbccuckcpl

    ncbbccuckcpl Active Member

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    I think too many on here think they are psychologists. What they are going through is a normal evolution of feelings for many people. Early on we as a couple went through it as well. There is a lot of fear associated with this type of relationship. Fear both in the husband and the wife. It takes a lot of communication and work to get through the fears and to a level of trust and acceptance that both want to take part in the lifestyle. Pretty simple.. what you resist persists.
     
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