Viagra Decision

[Smolder]

Like many here my sexual fantasies have been consumed by the idea of my wife with a black man and to increasingly greater extent myself in a cuckold role. While my wife enjoys fantasizing about BBC she is very hesitant to take things further and says she doesn't get the cuckolding aspect. I have noticed a decrease in sexual stamina as I have aged, which I expect is not uncommon. Our typical routine involves me going down on her, encouraging her to fantasize about aggressive, dominant black men until she is really turned on. Even though this fantasy turns me on also, my erections are much less hard than they used to be. This results in only having a semi-hard cock during most of our intercourse until I get fully hard just before I cum. To compensate I spend more time going down on her & she has commented that I am quite good in this department.

However, while this may be quite enjoyable & I have made her cum this way, I expect my wife is frustrated by my inability to give her an orgasm like she fantasizes about with a black man. While sh has never criticized my performance she has brought up whether I have considered taking Viagra. Of course it has crossed my mind, but at some level I feel like accentuating the inadequacies of my white dick may encourage her to take the next step. I recognize this is probably typical cuck thinking and not the healthiest way to go about things. I am interested in others thoughts & how they may have handled this.

 

[nevercanthinkof1]

Cialis is better. It allows you more control over when you want to get the erection. Viagra, in my experience, can make you get a little crazed about when to take it, how long to wait etc.

You're a guy. As we get older, it happens. If you are not allergic to it, use it.

 

[East side man]

Do you have to get this through a doctor.

 

[EllaTwo]

I would suggest that instead of Viagra, you get a really nice, realistic black vibrating dildo, and use it on her while you watch IR porn. Besides, I hear there is a big Viagra shortage due to a big spill of the stuff in a lake. See the attached very interesting article about that

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[nevercanthinkof1]

Do you have to get this through a doctor.

Yes. See a doctor. There could be something else wrong that is being masked by the condition. But see the doctor, its not hard and it will help you get hard.

 

[Chip]

I would suggest that instead of Viagra, you get a really nice, realistic black vibrating dildo, and use it on her while you watch IR porn. Besides, I hear there is a big Viagra shortage due to a big spill of the stuff in a lake. See the attached very interesting article about that

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Very clever!

 

[Chip]

No matter how much your wife wants foreplay and romance in the end she expects and wants a hard cock in her pussy screwing her. My wife has bought me supplements to help me to stay healthy sexually and has said if I need to see a doctor to get some help to do it!!

 

[Smolder]

I've heard the recommendation to get a realistic black dildo several times so I took the plunge & bought one for my my wife a while back. I wanted one that was very realistic and large enough to make mine seem inadequate without being so big it would seem freakish. I ordered this Eddie Diaz version from Amazon (A gay pornstar, but irrelevant).



The description said this one was 8" insertable length & 5-3/4" around (I am 5-1/2" long). I think I imagined myself larger than I actually am because we were both shocked how huge it looked when she opened it and we both were pretty embarrassed. My wife's first reaction was more tentative than excitement, she thought it was just too big & what would someone think if they ever accidentally discovered it in our stuff. It kind of excited me imagining a friend accidentally discovering our big black dildo & wondering what my wife might be fantasizing about.

However everytime I suggested trying it out my wife was very hesitant. I have got her to try a few times but even with alot of lube she can only take a few inches. I think a combination of nervousness & embarrassment prevents her from relaxing. I've also encouraged her to try it by herself but as far as I know it hasn't become the exciting surrogate I was hoping for.

For the time being I am still more successful getting her off by going down on her. I also often tease her about whether she would prefer a big black cock, especially during sex when I sense my dick just isn't reaching the spot she needs it to. But for now she still just wants to keep things a fantasy & says she is satisfied, although she has made some pointed comments about how nice it would be if my dick was as talented as my tongue. So I guess its apparent that even the best oral skills aren't going to replace a good hard screwing.