For me it's titillating and arousing when a Black suitor subtly displays his dominance over my husband. That commanding look he gives my husband immediately gets him to give up his seat and move so my Black Lover can sit besides me in a booth at a restaurant or club. Without even looking at my husband he'll order him to get us drinks or summon a waiter so my Lover can place our order, neglecting my husband. He sits there passively while my pussy's rub, my breasts fondled and soft kisses are exchanged, all the while over hearing my Lover tell me how he's going to fuck me good like a Real Man, a Black Man. Out of the corner of my eye I can see that puppy dog look on my husbands face, intimidated and humiliated. It excites me even more, my disdain for my impotent husband fueling my desire for the Real Man sitting next to me. When all is finished my Lover and I get up and leave, walking out arm and arm for all to see while my husband waits to pay the check. The Black employees smile at us and thank us as we leave, all of them knowing what the night has in store for us. As my husband follows from a distance you can only imagine the contempt they must have for him for being so weak, letting other men take and satisfy his wife like only Black Men can.