You know i did not get a lot of deatils, I did see a picture of him and I was rather surprised she chose this guy because i feel like she could have done a lot better as far as looks go. All she really told me was that his cock size was smaller than mine, and I think i am about average, not huge but not small. I know he did not wear protection and she was worried she was going to get pregnent. She would not tell me why she didn't enjoy the experience, she just said she didn't enjoy it. I told her it could have been the circumstances, for one, she had sex with him at my sisters apartment while my sister and her husband were home, which could have made her feel uncomfortable, and i was trying to avoid divorce so maybe she felt a little guilty. After I had told her how I felt She right away seemed opposed to the idea. later she seemed to ease up a bit to the point she wanted to watch interracial porn and she would make comments like "he is too small", "he is too long", "i could take that one." Then she even agreed to it, we found someone on a dating site, he sent pictures, he was not real thick, but longer than me, she rushed in into the bedroom big smile on her face telling me the guy had sent cock pics, and wanted some in return. So we sent him some pussy photos and boob pics, and told him we would get back to him with a date that worked for us. Within a day she chickened out and seemed to lose all interest in it. We used bigger toys, watched some interracial porn now and again, discussed it some more, and then she told me that her fear was it would cause problems in the marriage, i said well I'm the one who wants her to do it, so I could not get upset at her for doing it, and if she has a good time that's all I care about. So she said if she does do it she wants me to be involved not just watching in which i agreed, but again shortly after she seemed to lose interest. She told me she just didn't enjoy it the first time and didn't want to try it again. So I again came up with reasons why she may not have enjoyed it. i explained to her just because one black guy sucked in the sack does not mean they all do and she could be missing out on some great sexual experiences. I told her before we got married i had good and bad sexual experiences with white women. However right now we are pretty much at a stand still. Its surprising because my wife has a high sex drive, higher than mine and I would think she would accept the extra help satisfying her needs.