i am Tiff and i recently hit it off with a black man i met on this site. he is fron another state but he is on his way down here this weekend to be with me. the thing is that i live on about 40 acres with my parents though we are right next to them. i love my mom and my dad but i know that my dad hasnt been doing my mom anygood at all in bed. i am going to tell her about my husbands and mine open marrige tonight and i and going to tell her that my lover is going to be here this weekend so she dont freak out about him being there. i think i will wait till he is here and she can see his sexyness for herself that i let her know he is a black man and not a white wannabe. i said all that to say that i think i can convince my mom to try it as well but wondering if i should. i love my dad but her treats her like crap and even has another female who has a trailer on our proporty that he pays all of the bills of. he says that she is just a friend but no one is fooled. should i show her the way to the dark side?