Too many fakes and flakes

#1
I have set up and been contacted by a few other members. Some, I even comunicated via cell phone. Then, poof!!! Like magic, as if it never happened. I will not be a part of the site if it doesn't work. Anyone else having problems or luck? Is it my area?
Regardless, I will be shutting down my profile for good if I don't see a point to it.