I have never been able to meet people on the internet, and I don't even try. I have NO trouble meeting people in bars, on the street, at my local cafe, supermarket, Chinese take-away, at work, on the beach - just about anywhere. I am an organiser, a wheeler and dealer, a player and all-round fun guy. In a bar I am a larger than life personality who attracts crowds. My life's collection of erotic situations are beyond counting!
Yet...on the net I barely get a reply. I wrote a story about my first (Japanese) wife on here that was true to the letter, and it barely got a response. A few people liked it and said so (thank you), but the response was underwhelming. I don't know why it is this way, but it certainly discourages me from writing anything else.
So, I never came on here to meet people. I thought it might be good as a medium for sharing my erotic fetishes with others, but it isn't. In the end it comes down to looking at hot pics of chicks getting fucked by big black dicks - and that's about it. If you treat it as such, its OK!