The stereotype of the super wimpy, sissy, white guy is not a good look, IMO. It creeps me out how a lot of dudes put thenselves out there. - What is a good look? I enjoy being a good host in general. I always want everyone to have the best possible time every time I have a guest. I like to share what is good in life. - What is good to share? I myself have been in 2, 3-some related events where the other dude was just so damn creepy. I was the dominant role, but I just lost total intrest via the creep factor. - I never want to project creepy vibes like that, and I still shiver with one of those particular memories! ("Dude, I'm trying to fuck 'your wife' here!") I've dated a stripper; I've dated an escort. I'm good with not being a third wheel when needed. That's just me. I thought about this from a thread on if the husband/boyfriend should be 'there' or not. What are some things to do which are great to do? And the worst? I'm a wm, if that matters.